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What is the name of your state? CLAREMONT- NORTH CAROLINA...me and my fiance got into an argument....the argument got heated and he broke something we bought together---me not being able to control of myself--starting getting back at him by hitting myself---not thinking of not being on my meds-i punched myself and threw myself across his weight set leaving quite a few very bad bruises and swelling---he then slapped me and said stop which i did...i knew this would hurt him more than the figurines we bought---i left our house and went to the corner store---the store clerk saw my red marks on me and ask if i was o.k--- i told her i just have to cool off and collect myself...she called the claremont police dpmt...and they went and arrested my fiance and charged him with assault with a deadly weapon inflicting serious injury- a class e felony...even after i told the police---this is not his fault---they still arrested him and charged him with the whole thing...then the investigating officer told me i was filling out an address verification form---turns out it was a complaint form---they said i had broken bones and fractures---which my medical records from the catawba memorial hospital show no broken bones or fractures---they still charged him with everything---i hired an attorny to fix this whole thing but all he could do for the amount of money that i had at the time was get the no contact law struck....how is this right---i pressed no charges because i knew it wasent his fault i flipped out---they never read his miranda rights or took his statement and lied on the police report--then told me to fill out an address verification form which was really a complaint form--i was so upset i just signed the paper and never read it---i feel taken advantage of big time---plus they told me it was only for verification of my address--i believed them---after all--- their the police....i cant afford another attorny---my fiance was affraid that dss would take my kids because i didnt have my meds---so on the jail phone he knew the law was listening to our conversations and made it sound like he did it all---so d.s.s wouldnt take my kids until i could get medicade to get my synthroid for my thyroid gland...synthroid helps my hormones balance because i have an underactive thyroid...after not having my synthroid for over two months i kind of freaked out on him -----God how can i fix this mess---i have my medicine now and him back in my life---but he now has a full blown felony for assault on a female inflicting serious injury...i was told by a friend that if they dont read you--your miranda rights---the whole thing could be thrown out of court---he plead no contest after 134 days in jail and is going to M.A.T classes--i had a girfriend who was one of those "take him back kind even if he was awful to her types" and this is not the case bar none---he is a good man who has put up with alot from me---including surgeries and loving my kids as his own---"please" if you can advise me on who or what i should or can do to fix this whole thing---i live on a fixed income and cant afford an attorny---me and my kids just cant beleive this whole thing--"feeling hopeless in Claremont N.C" thank you for any and all help...Dawn

[ceara19]

You might want to look into some medication for your ADD.

[ceara19]

Originally Posted by Curt581

Somehow I get the impression there's alot more going on there than ADD.

I'm sure there is, but the first post is all over the place and out of control, it's almost impossible to figure out what the real issues may be.

Originally Posted by Curt581

Somehow I get the impression there's alot more going on there than ADD.

To quote Carlos Mencia: "dee-dee-dee." That's my guess. LOL

[lealea1005]

Hypothroidism causes your metabolism to bottom out causing depression, fatigue, weight gain, joint and muscle pain. If anything, OP would have "freaked out" in slow motion. Synthroid may help her metabolism, but will do nothing for her self control issues or growing brain cells.

[lealea1005]

Originally Posted by Curt581

It could be caused by a variety of conditions. None of us are fit to judge or diagnose based on the original post.

Whatever the cause, the fact remains... if the boyfriend continues to stay with her, he'll eventually be the one who "Gotscrewed", NOT her.

I was agreeing with you that there's more going on than just ADD or using her thyroid as her excuse. Her boyfriend needs to skeedaddle as fast as he can. Guess, I should have been clearer.

[zookey]

"Hypothroidism causes your metabolism to bottom out causing depression, fatigue, weight gain, joint and muscle pain. If anything, OP would have "freaked out" in slow motion. Synthroid may help her metabolism, but will do nothing for her self control issues or growing brain cells."


Got to agree with that. Had thyroidectomy and am on medication for it. Not taking meds will make me eventually go into a coma because it slows down everything, does not make you agressive. Too much can make you agressive, not the other way around.

So on the statement that the meds caused this**************.wrong! try again.

[stephenk]

"i punched myself and threw myself across his weight set leaving quite a few very bad bruises and swelling"

Reminds me of the Twit Olympics by Monty Python. I would have paid a dollar to see that!

[failed]

Wow. This is hard. The cops will always and I mean ALWAYS assume it's the guy. Males tend to be violent. I'm assuming, though, if it's a prescribed med, you should get the help of a psychiatrist to evaluate YOU, and explain (to the court) that it was, in fact, self mutilation on your part, and yes, you will need to get help, but then this is to help you and your lover.




Oh, and questioning the intelligence of those who are supposed to help you will probably deter people from wanting to give you advice.

[Shay-Pari'e]

Don't you think we have all had enough of Kelly for one day?

[Shay-Pari'e]

gotscrewed
Junior Member Join Date: Jan 2007
Posts: 3

daaaaaaaaaaa call the police---its assault

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hello ticked off mom---"think"----its assault---call the police....

YEP! Kelly. She's been reported.

[ceara19]

Originally Posted by failed

Males tend to be violent.

Mighty broad assumption, don't you think? I know MANY, MANY, MANY men that are NOT violent. Saying that males tend to be violent is like saying females tend to be whiny