here is more info. i did not state this. this may change things.
Her parents and I have different outlooks on things and they had decided to threaten me that they filed a restraining order against me a week ago. Her 18th birthday is November 11th. She did not file the restraining order against me, it was her dad. I have not broken the law, abused her, harrassed her, stalked her , etc etc. She has planned on moving down where I am (Alabama) with me for quite sometime. Her dad "says" he filed one but I have no verification of that. I called the Hamilton County Judicial Court the other day and both attorneys I had spoken to said she needs to come to the courthouse after she is turned 18 and sign the restraining order off. I also contacted a social worker I knew and she stated the same thing.The judge has nothing against me as far as charges. My girlfriend and I both dont have any criminal record and we both have caused no trouble, its just that her parents and I have different views. I constantly get phone calls from her father stating he is going to kill me and that its worth a lifetime in jail as long as i stay away from her for a couple days. My father and I have both been told this. My father is one of peace and no harm so he ignores it. I have a bus ticket to go up to Indiana to get my truck thats up there and I had planned to have her come back with me. I want this restraining order deal over with. Its ridiculous. This is not something the judge ordered to me or ordered to her, its something her dad wanted and I knid of thought that she could get it taken off once shes legally and adult and out of her parents house. I will get an attorney to petition if needed but this whole deal is blown way way way out of proportion.
Hopefully you have some advice/help for me!
Thanks