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A former girl friend of my son obtained a protective order against him. No violence was involved - just phone and emails. He was never allowed to appear in court; her final order was issued only on her accusations in another state - AZ.
The former girl friend would go to places that my son had frequented before she dated him; she only started going to these places because of their dating. For example, she was out of town at school for a year; she came back to town for the summer and went to the club on the day that a specific band played at the club knowing that my son would be there as he would go nearly every week. He left as soon as he noticed her there. Later that week, he and a friend were at another club playing pool; she again came to the club, and he left.
It seems as though she was deliberately trying to make him violate the order and have him arrested by going to places she knew he would be. He asked for a protective order against her but did not receive it. It seems as though the courts here will do nothing for a man. My husband was even prevented from going into the courtroom to observe our son's request for a protective order while the woman could take friends for moral support.
It does not seem that she is really "afraid" of him if she knowingly goes where he will be. Is there anything he can do to keep her from stalking him?
A former girl friend of my son obtained a protective order against him. No violence was involved - just phone and emails. He was never allowed to appear in court; her final order was issued only on her accusations in another state - AZ.
The former girl friend would go to places that my son had frequented before she dated him; she only started going to these places because of their dating. For example, she was out of town at school for a year; she came back to town for the summer and went to the club on the day that a specific band played at the club knowing that my son would be there as he would go nearly every week. He left as soon as he noticed her there. Later that week, he and a friend were at another club playing pool; she again came to the club, and he left.
It seems as though she was deliberately trying to make him violate the order and have him arrested by going to places she knew he would be. He asked for a protective order against her but did not receive it. It seems as though the courts here will do nothing for a man. My husband was even prevented from going into the courtroom to observe our son's request for a protective order while the woman could take friends for moral support.
It does not seem that she is really "afraid" of him if she knowingly goes where he will be. Is there anything he can do to keep her from stalking him?