What is the name of your state? Ga
My fiance and I have been together for 10 yrs, but just got engaged last year. Soon after the engagement, I found out that he had cheated and gotten another woman pregnant. It devastated me, however, after lots of praying careful consideration, I decided to forgive him and take him back. He's helped me raise my 2 children from a previous marriage. So I felt the need to keep our family together. Anyway, he wasn't sure the baby was his - it was a one night stand the the girl has slept with all his friends and cousins. Once she realized that I was going to stick with him through thick and thin, she denied him a paternity test until the baby was almost 6 mos old. Since the paternity has been confirmed, she still won't allow him access to the baby and has filed child abandonment charges on him and applied for a restraining order for me. The paper work says that I am being charged with harassing phone calls. I called her phone on the day that I found out she was pregnant - over a year ago. However, I have NEVER threatened her in any way. And, a couple of weeks ago, I sent her a letter basically telling her that we should put all the name calling, vengefulness, etc to the side because, like it or not, we're all family. I tried to be the bigger person (by the way the girl is 16 yrs YOUNGER than my fiance and I), and let her know that I am not trying to go to battle with her. That I'd already forgiven both of them for what happened, and had accepted God's will of bringing this baby girl into existence. I've never caller her out her name, disrespected her, etc. Matter of fact, I only met her for the first time on the day that the DNA test was done. So, I've concluded that she's attempting to get a restraining order on me because I think she realizes that her plan to be with my fiance has back fired on her and she realizes that I will be apart of her daughter's life, since my fiance and i will be getting married soon. I go to court in 2 days to answer the harrassing phone call charges, at the same time, he'll be in court on the child abandonment charges - which i don't see how they'll stick since he only confirmed the paternity less than 6 wks ago and she hasn't answered any phone calls since then. Is this something that I need to retain an attorney for? She has no proof because there is none. I plan to bring the letter that I wrote to her as evidence of my extension of the olive branch, but I want to make sure that I'm not being naive about the procedure of the hearing. Can anyone advise? Much appreciation
My fiance and I have been together for 10 yrs, but just got engaged last year. Soon after the engagement, I found out that he had cheated and gotten another woman pregnant. It devastated me, however, after lots of praying careful consideration, I decided to forgive him and take him back. He's helped me raise my 2 children from a previous marriage. So I felt the need to keep our family together. Anyway, he wasn't sure the baby was his - it was a one night stand the the girl has slept with all his friends and cousins. Once she realized that I was going to stick with him through thick and thin, she denied him a paternity test until the baby was almost 6 mos old. Since the paternity has been confirmed, she still won't allow him access to the baby and has filed child abandonment charges on him and applied for a restraining order for me. The paper work says that I am being charged with harassing phone calls. I called her phone on the day that I found out she was pregnant - over a year ago. However, I have NEVER threatened her in any way. And, a couple of weeks ago, I sent her a letter basically telling her that we should put all the name calling, vengefulness, etc to the side because, like it or not, we're all family. I tried to be the bigger person (by the way the girl is 16 yrs YOUNGER than my fiance and I), and let her know that I am not trying to go to battle with her. That I'd already forgiven both of them for what happened, and had accepted God's will of bringing this baby girl into existence. I've never caller her out her name, disrespected her, etc. Matter of fact, I only met her for the first time on the day that the DNA test was done. So, I've concluded that she's attempting to get a restraining order on me because I think she realizes that her plan to be with my fiance has back fired on her and she realizes that I will be apart of her daughter's life, since my fiance and i will be getting married soon. I go to court in 2 days to answer the harrassing phone call charges, at the same time, he'll be in court on the child abandonment charges - which i don't see how they'll stick since he only confirmed the paternity less than 6 wks ago and she hasn't answered any phone calls since then. Is this something that I need to retain an attorney for? She has no proof because there is none. I plan to bring the letter that I wrote to her as evidence of my extension of the olive branch, but I want to make sure that I'm not being naive about the procedure of the hearing. Can anyone advise? Much appreciation