I thought thats what you were doing to be honest. Gathering information.Well, from what I read, PI's are immune to stalking laws since they clearly have legitimate reason for their surveillance which is without question to be not to harass or intimidate but to gather information.
Don't be so sure about that. You need an attorney.I have no worries as to conviction as I don't see how they can prove my intent to be harassing or intimidating (which it wasn't)
Okay, I appreciate your response. Apparently I didn't explain well OR there is some jumping to conclusions going on.Don't be so sure about that. You need an attorney.
The DA will probably attempt present several things to show your intent...
1. You continually stalked the victim after confirming the residence of the child.
2. You knew the victim had legal custody of the child.
3. You used law enforcement or the threat of law enforcement to perform a "welfare" check on the child without any evidence of endangerment, which can be argued is harassment to intimidate the victim into giving up custody the child.
4. Any communication you or your gf had with the victim that indicates that you would stop following them or stop calling law enforcement for a "welfare" check will greatly enhance the DA's argument.
5. You are not the legal guardian or relative of the minor child and have no standing in a custody battle.
Whether you like to hear it or not, these things add up to show you as a bf willing to threaten or intimidate the victim to get your gf's child back. I would also be willing to be that the victim will testify that he/she felt harassed and intimidated to the point where the ex felt the need to stand his ground and chase you off.
You're argument of "Well, that's not what I intended to do" won't go very far by itself.
Thats what I was thinking. If she testifies that she felt harassed(true or not) it might be all they would need to guarantee a conviction.I would also be willing to be that the victim will testify that he/she felt harassed and intimidated to the point where the ex felt the need to stand his ground and chase you off.
your problem is you cant stop talking, explaining, debating... the reason you are in this trouble is because you tried to talk yourself out of trouble, you talked yourself into jail for a week, why haven't you learned this essential life lesson even after 2 pages of us trying to tell you.Okay, I appreciate your response. Apparently I didn't explain well OR there is some jumping to conclusions going on.
1. We never knew where the child was being kept. That is what we were trying to ascertain.
2. The "victim" did not have custody. The "victim" is the father's tweeker gf. The father turned out to be in the next county. That didn't come to light until the emergency court hearing on the following Friday for temporary custody.
3. We never used LE as a tool for threatening. LE informed us that they were willing to perform a welfare check if we could tell them where the child was. The Father did not tell the Sheriff when directed to do so.
4. There was no communication with the "victim". She waved and taunted us when we drove by the first time. That was the extent of all communication.
5. Not sure how that is relevant to the charge.
By no means am I arguing with you, just want to make sure you have the accurate information in front of you in order to give an opinion. I appreciate your input.
The victim has already stated that I was there to find the child. The code states MY intent. Whether or not the victim "felt harassed" is not mentioned in the code whatsoever. Only MY intent.Thats what I was thinking. If she testifies that she felt harassed(true or not) it might be all they would need to guarantee a conviction.
Ohiogal, where did you get this from? I have found nothing that states it is a defense to "stalking" if you are related to the person. Can you clarify this please.
for you to be found not guilty, you need a lawyer to plea your case to the DA or to a jury. So at this point you should be thinking if you are going to chose a lawyer who will listen to your story, and put the proper spin on it...or if you are just going to go with what settlement the DA will give lawyerless you. (hint, DA save the bottom line for lawyers and legal aids.)The victim has already stated that I was there to find the child. The code states MY intent. Whether or not the victim "felt harassed" is not mentioned in the code whatsoever. Only MY intent.
I'm not trying to 'talk my way" out of anything. I'm presenting an accurate depiction of the events and am hoping someone can shed some insight as to how I could conceivably be found guilty. One person has done so, however their opinion was apparently based upon untrue assumptions regarding the events.
The CHILD is LEGALLY not yours to find> The child was with a legal custodian of which this person WAS NOT the legal custodian. You could not have followed HER to get to the child because the child was with dad. As for tweeker and other slams? Watch yourself stalkerboy.The victim has already stated that I was there to find the child. The code states MY intent. Whether or not the victim "felt harassed" is not mentioned in the code whatsoever. Only MY intent.
I'm not trying to 'talk my way" out of anything. I'm presenting an accurate depiction of the events and am hoping someone can shed some insight as to how I could conceivably be found guilty. One person has done so, however their opinion was apparently based upon untrue assumptions regarding the events.