You will not believe what happened...need feedback please

[Sadness05]

What is the name of your state?What is the name of your state? MA

Hello All,

You guys will not believe what just happened.
I'm sure some of you remember my story with the girl that I use to love. To make long story short, we use to work together, then we drifted apart, then she quit cause she stole money from our co-worker while being on probation. Then, she pressed charges against me cause I found out where she lives and the rest is history. I haven't seen her since May in court.

Bear in mind these things about her:
1. Wrecked some girl's car.
2. Used drugs (now, smokes weed only).
3. She and her friend robbed the girl's grandmother's house.
4. stole $900 while being on probation.
5. Shows her body to guys, lets other guys touch her body, and talks explicitly about sex to guys.
6. She is not independent. She depends heavily on her boyfriend.
7. She cries a lot.

Now, here is the thing, today I saw her and it is NOT coincidence. After I left work at 3:30, I went to turn to go on the high way and there she comes behind me with a new car. (there is nothing for her to be near where I work, there is no stores, nothing except houses and the company that I work in) then after we got on the high way, I took the exit that I usually take and she took that exit as well, (she knew that I take that exit from before) I was looking at her through the mirror in the front to make sure it's her and you bet it was her. She looked at me as well and she knows that I saw her.

I don't know what to make of that. After a year she comes back near the area where I work (and where she use to work) and exactly at the time that I leave work?I'm telling you guys, It's not coincidence.

My question is why do you think she did that? To see my reaction? To see if I'm gonna follow her again? To play mind-game? Or what?
This freaked me out guys. Your input is appreciated.

Also, Today, I learned something new. One lady at my work works 2 jobs. She works at the company where I work (at a different department) and at a department store in the mall. That lady was talking with my co-worker (from the same department that I work in) and my co-worker asked the lady that works in the department store about the girl that I use to love. She mentioned her name and described how she looks like. Then, the lady that works the 2 jobs said that when she saw the girl that I use to love working at the department store, she knew that she saw her before that (cause she use to work with us in the company), but couldn't remember where. Anyway, that lady told my co-worker that a few months ago, around October, the police went to the department store and had to escort the girl that I use to love out of the department store.

To be honest, I was shocked. Doesn't that girl learn? She stole some money from one of my co-workers back in January 2005 while she was on probation, and after 10 months, she does the same thing? I'm not sure if she stole something from the department store or the cops found some drugs or something, but the lady said that the cops came and escorted her out. The only thing I can think of is that she stole something. My question is Does that mean she can't go to that specific mall anymore? Or only the store where she used to work?
She is now 21. When is she gonna wake up and start improving her life?

I've been feeling a little down for the past few days since I saw her. All the emotions and memories came back, but when my co-worker told me that the cops had to escort the girl that I use to love out from the department store, I was completely shocked.

I don't know... Maybe some day she will change.

[Shay-Pari'e]

I can't believe I read that.

[Sadness05]

Originally Posted by --PARIDISE--

I can't believe I read that.

Why is that?

[outonbail]

Originally Posted by --PARIDISE--

I can't believe I read that.

Does this mean you won't be at the book signing?

[seniorjudge]

Originally Posted by Sadness05

What is the name of your state?What is the name of your state? MA

Hello All,

You guys will not believe what just happened.
I'm sure some of you remember my story with the girl that I use to love. To make long story short, we use to work together, then we drifted apart, then she quit cause she stole money from our co-worker while being on probation. Then, she pressed charges against me cause I found out where she lives and the rest is history. I haven't seen her since May in court.

Bear in mind these things about her:
1. Wrecked some girl's car.
2. Used drugs (now, smokes weed only).
3. She and her friend robbed the girl's grandmother's house.
4. stole $900 while being on probation.
5. Shows her body to guys, lets other guys touch her body, and talks explicitly about sex to guys.
6. She is not independent. She depends heavily on her boyfriend.
7. She cries a lot.

Now, here is the thing, today I saw her and it is NOT coincidence. After I left work at 3:30, I went to turn to go on the high way and there she comes behind me with a new car. (there is nothing for her to be near where I work, there is no stores, nothing except houses and the company that I work in) then after we got on the high way, I took the exit that I usually take and she took that exit as well, (she knew that I take that exit from before) I was looking at her through the mirror in the front to make sure it's her and you bet it was her. She looked at me as well and she knows that I saw her.

I don't know what to make of that. After a year she comes back near the area where I work (and where she use to work) and exactly at the time that I leave work?I'm telling you guys, It's not coincidence.

My question is why do you think she did that? To see my reaction? To see if I'm gonna follow her again? To play mind-game? Or what?
This freaked me out guys. Your input is appreciated.

Also, Today, I learned something new. One lady at my work works 2 jobs. She works at the company where I work (at a different department) and at a department store in the mall. That lady was talking with my co-worker (from the same department that I work in) and my co-worker asked the lady that works in the department store about the girl that I use to love. She mentioned her name and described how she looks like. Then, the lady that works the 2 jobs said that when she saw the girl that I use to love working at the department store, she knew that she saw her before that (cause she use to work with us in the company), but couldn't remember where. Anyway, that lady told my co-worker that a few months ago, around October, the police went to the department store and had to escort the girl that I use to love out of the department store.

To be honest, I was shocked. Doesn't that girl learn? She stole some money from one of my co-workers back in January 2005 while she was on probation, and after 10 months, she does the same thing? I'm not sure if she stole something from the department store or the cops found some drugs or something, but the lady said that the cops came and escorted her out. The only thing I can think of is that she stole something. My question is Does that mean she can't go to that specific mall anymore? Or only the store where she used to work?
She is now 21. When is she gonna wake up and start improving her life?

I've been feeling a little down for the past few days since I saw her. All the emotions and memories came back, but when my co-worker told me that the cops had to escort the girl that I use to love out from the department store, I was completely shocked.

I don't know... Maybe some day she will change.

I'm sure some of you remember my story with the girl that I use to love.


How do you use her?

[Sadness05]

Seniorjudge,

Sorry for my typo. I meant "the girl that I used to love" Past tense.

I remember you helped me with giving me your advice back in March and May.

Can you please answer my questions? Especially the following ones:

1. When the police escorted her out of the department store a few months ago, does that mean she can't go to that mall anymore or only the store that she used to work in?

2. I'm not sure why they escorted her out, but I think that she stole something. Is there is any other reason for the cops to escort her out?
That means she must've stole something right?

Thanks

[seniorjudge]

Originally Posted by Sadness05

Seniorjudge,

Sorry for my typo. I meant "the girl that I used to love" Past tense.

I remember you helped me with giving me your advice back in March and May.

Can you please answer my questions? Especially the following ones:

1. When the police escorted her out of the department store a few months ago, does that mean she can't go to that mall anymore or only the store that she used to work in?

2. I'm not sure why they escorted her out, but I think that she stole something. Is there is any other reason for the cops to escort her out?
That means she must've stole something right?

Thanks

I don't know the answers to those questions.

My advice is to ignore her.

That drives crazy people nuts.

[Sadness05]

Thanks seniorjudge for your advice.

That's what I'm doing right now.

[outonbail]

Originally Posted by Sadness05

Thanks seniorjudge for your advice.

That's what I'm doing right now.

Cunning strategy!
Be sure to keep us posted on this cliffhanger,,,,

[Sadness05]

Originally Posted by outonbail

Cunning strategy!
Be sure to keep us posted on this cliffhanger,,,,

Dude,

I know it sounds too dramatic to be true, but it is true. I have no reason to come here and make up a story.

Here is my other thread when I really needed help back in April

[url]http://forum.freeadvice.com/showthread.php?t=235732[/url]

(not that you would understand).

[Happy Trails]

Originally Posted by Sadness05

Dude,

I know it sounds too dramatic to be true, but it is true. I have no reason to come here and make up a story.

Here is my other thread when I really needed help back in April

[url]http://forum.freeadvice.com/showthread.php?t=235732[/url]

(not that you would understand).

Ahh.. yes, I remember you. You told me in that thread she was just a friend.

You are still getting all caught up in the drama. You don't need to know what is happening in her life. Remember I told you to forget about her...

The advise you got in that thread still stands. Go back and read it as if it were given to you today.

[Sadness05]

Originally Posted by Happy Trails

Ahh.. yes, I remember you. You told me in that thread she was just a friend.

You are still getting all caught up in the drama. You don't need to know what is happening in her life. Remember I told you to forget about her...

The advise you got in that thread still stands. Go back and read it as if it were given to you today.

Yes I remember Happy Trails and we were just friends cause our relationship drifted before she even stole the money. At that time when I went to see and talk to her, we were only friends.

I also remember you saying to stay away from girls who have bad reputation and to forget about her.

I know, I've moved on, but when I saw her last week, all the emotions and memories came back.

[justalayman]

Sadness, I don't see where you gave the final disposition of your case.

You seem to know more about this girl's life than I know about my brother that lives a mile down the road.

You need to stay away from her. If you were tried criminally and have a PO . if this happens again, report it to your PO to avoid any misunderstandings.

If no PO then you might want to start a log to keep records if it happens again.

[outonbail]

Dude,

I know it sounds too dramatic to be true, but it is true. I have no reason to come here and make up a story.

Dude,
I never accused you of making anything up. In fact, I don’t think anyone in their right mind would bother making this stuff up.

Here is my other thread when I really needed help back in April

Thank you for pointing me to another best seller. I read it all in one sitting, I was riveted to my monitor’s screen. I felt just like I was there, having my heart broken, when I only wanted to be her friend and help her. Because that’s what friends do!

(not that you would understand).

What’s not to understand?
Boy meets girl. Boy falls in love with girl. Boy becomes obsessed. Girl feeds her ego with boys attention until boy annoys her like a piece of gum stuck to her shoe. Girl gets restraining order. Boy violates order in the name of love. DA files charges.

Now, I’m at the edge of my seat here. You never posted the results of the last courtroom experience, stemming from this unfruitful, one way love affair.
What happened? Did girl show up? Did boy hire attorney? Did charges get dropped? Did boy learn lesson?

The suspense is just killing me here,,,,,,,,, update me, please!

[Sadness05]

Originally Posted by outonbail

Dude,
I never accused you of making anything up. In fact, I don’t think anyone in their right mind would bother making this stuff up.

Go and read your above comment and you will know. Don't play stupid.

Thank you for pointing me to another best seller. I read it all in one sitting, I was riveted to my monitor’s screen. I felt just like I was there, having my heart broken, when I only wanted to be her friend and help her. Because that’s what friends do!

No, that's what enemies do

What’s not to understand?
Boy meets girl. Boy falls in love with girl. Boy becomes obsessed. Girl feeds her ego with boys attention until boy annoys her like a piece of gum stuck to her shoe. Girl gets restraining order. Boy violates order in the name of love. DA files charges.

Now, I’m at the edge of my seat here. You never posted the results of the last courtroom experience, stemming from this unfruitful, one way love affair.
What happened? Did girl show up? Did boy hire attorney? Did charges get dropped? Did boy learn lesson?

The suspense is just killing me here,,,,,,,,, update me, please!

There is no reason to talk with kids is there?