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What is the name of your state? california
Hi. My daughter was assaulted by a guy she was dating at his parents home. She was hit in both sides of her neck, chest,arms and thrown against a block wall. He hit her with an unopened coke can in his hand. As she was trying to ring the doorbell to get help from his mother he continued to hit her. His mother opened the door and grabbed him around the neck to get him off. As she did this he kicked my daughter in the legs. The neighbors called the police and because my daughter hit him back in self defense and got him in the lip (his only wound) they said if she pressed charges they would both be arrested. My daughter has 2 small boys not from him so when she called me to tell me we decided not to press charges because of her children. His mother got on the phone and asked me to please let it go as her son was starting a new job the next day.
A few hours later I took my daughter to the ER as she couldn't move her neck and had a grapefruit size lump in the middle of her chest. She was covered in bruises and having severe panic attacks. The police showed up again and we thought something would be done but again they said unless his mother said her son did this there would be a double arrest. So again we let it go.
Now my daughter has fallen into a deep depression and is not the same person she was before this happened. She no longer cares about anything and sleeps all the time. She doesn't play with her boys and her unemployment ran out and she won't leave the house to look for work because she is so afraid. She needs to go to the doctor to get something to help with all of this but I can't even get her to do that.
Does anyone know what we should do? Do we file a lawsuit and if so who would we sue he doesn't have anything. I am just afraid for my grandsons. They are losing their mother and I am doing my best to take over for her right now. Please any advice would be great. THANK YOU
Hi. My daughter was assaulted by a guy she was dating at his parents home. She was hit in both sides of her neck, chest,arms and thrown against a block wall. He hit her with an unopened coke can in his hand. As she was trying to ring the doorbell to get help from his mother he continued to hit her. His mother opened the door and grabbed him around the neck to get him off. As she did this he kicked my daughter in the legs. The neighbors called the police and because my daughter hit him back in self defense and got him in the lip (his only wound) they said if she pressed charges they would both be arrested. My daughter has 2 small boys not from him so when she called me to tell me we decided not to press charges because of her children. His mother got on the phone and asked me to please let it go as her son was starting a new job the next day.
A few hours later I took my daughter to the ER as she couldn't move her neck and had a grapefruit size lump in the middle of her chest. She was covered in bruises and having severe panic attacks. The police showed up again and we thought something would be done but again they said unless his mother said her son did this there would be a double arrest. So again we let it go.
Now my daughter has fallen into a deep depression and is not the same person she was before this happened. She no longer cares about anything and sleeps all the time. She doesn't play with her boys and her unemployment ran out and she won't leave the house to look for work because she is so afraid. She needs to go to the doctor to get something to help with all of this but I can't even get her to do that.
Does anyone know what we should do? Do we file a lawsuit and if so who would we sue he doesn't have anything. I am just afraid for my grandsons. They are losing their mother and I am doing my best to take over for her right now. Please any advice would be great. THANK YOU