JustMarried921
Junior Member
What is the name of your state? New Jersey
I am recently married (092107). My husband was involved in an automobile/pedestrian accident whereby he was on a bicycle when a car hit him. This occurred in July 2004. I did not witness the accident; however, I did witness when the ambulance crew dropped him at the hospital. Among other injuries, he has been having headaches since--so severe it disables him. I contacted his attorney's office because this accident has caused me so much stress that it is now affecting our marriage. He freaked out when the attorney's office told me that he was receiving a check for settlement of the first portion of his case. As his wife, do I have the right to let his attorney, or paralegal, know how his headaches are so severe that it is causing me pain and suffering. His personality changes on a daily basis. He was never like this prior to the accident. He hit the windshield with his head, cracking it, and then landed quite a bit farther away from that vehicle. His trauma is now my trauma. My husband says that it is his case and I have no business. My business is that it is, and has, affected me. I live with his pain every day--now it is my pain as well. It's awful. Friday, he was having an okay day. Saturday, he was imbalanced with dizziness, could not open his eyes, and slept all day and night. Sunday, he was pleasant so much that we were able to have lunch. Monday, he went to work wtih a headache and could not function in the evening. Today, he is screaming at me because he has to work and he can't think straight due to the pain. Don't I have the right to let his attorney know this. Is his settlement my business as well? I do not want him to settle if he still needs the help. We need the money for household expenses, but I need my husband more. Please someone HELP
I am recently married (092107). My husband was involved in an automobile/pedestrian accident whereby he was on a bicycle when a car hit him. This occurred in July 2004. I did not witness the accident; however, I did witness when the ambulance crew dropped him at the hospital. Among other injuries, he has been having headaches since--so severe it disables him. I contacted his attorney's office because this accident has caused me so much stress that it is now affecting our marriage. He freaked out when the attorney's office told me that he was receiving a check for settlement of the first portion of his case. As his wife, do I have the right to let his attorney, or paralegal, know how his headaches are so severe that it is causing me pain and suffering. His personality changes on a daily basis. He was never like this prior to the accident. He hit the windshield with his head, cracking it, and then landed quite a bit farther away from that vehicle. His trauma is now my trauma. My husband says that it is his case and I have no business. My business is that it is, and has, affected me. I live with his pain every day--now it is my pain as well. It's awful. Friday, he was having an okay day. Saturday, he was imbalanced with dizziness, could not open his eyes, and slept all day and night. Sunday, he was pleasant so much that we were able to have lunch. Monday, he went to work wtih a headache and could not function in the evening. Today, he is screaming at me because he has to work and he can't think straight due to the pain. Don't I have the right to let his attorney know this. Is his settlement my business as well? I do not want him to settle if he still needs the help. We need the money for household expenses, but I need my husband more. Please someone HELP