RunningOnEmpty said
What percentage of comparitive negligence are they charging you with?
You know, The letter they sent did not say. That will be something I am going to find out abou though. Thanks.
RunningOnEmpty said
Do they feel the door broke because the boys were rough-housing or do they feel you should have been sitting on the toilet watching them bathe?
When they were investigating and asking questions we told them that, I filled the tub for the younger son and he was in the tub taking a bath, I was still in the bathroom with him, then the older son came in the bathroom and wanted to take a bath too, so I told him go ahead. He peed in the toilet, I left the room and went to the next room which is my bedroom, and told the oldest boy to shut the shower door, He said, "yes, Ma'am." and within secnds there was a cry from him and an explosion, by the time I was standing at the door there he was glass everywhere, and in a tub of blood.
Also, when they were investigating they spoke to my son and asked him if he liked any sports. He said, "Yes." They asked him which ones? He said, "Football, basketball, soccer." They said, "Were you playing soccer in the tub? His reply, "NOOOOO, I would never do that." I believe that they are going on the premise that in all acuality he was playing soccer in the tub. The issue is they did have bath toys in the tub with them. Small little figurines, dolphins, and whales. Don't most kids have some kind of toy with them in the tub?
I mean my kids love the water, and would at that time have taken 10 baths a day if I let them. Even now, they will take at least 2 showers a day.
In all actuality there was no time for rough housing, he didn't even fully emerge himself in the tub. Are my kids beyond rough housing? No. But, really they didn't in the tub, or they weren't aloud to take a bath together.
About the scar...I have been wondering if possibly he was being vain about it. He really hates it. He wants plastic surgery to get rid of it. He's had a lot of questions about it, one being from a rude kid..."What did you try to committ suicide?" With comments like that, he does get upset. We keep telling him that the scar is no big deal and that it wil continue to diminish as he gets older. It's just really thick and jagged looking and that's what he doesn't like. For his father and I, it is the numbness in his finger tips (thumb and pointer) that is the main concern for us. The doctors have talked about possible nerve grafting, but keep saying, "Maybe we should give it more time to see if it heals itself"
So, we have been waiting.
We are not in a hurry to settle with the insurance company. We will wait untill the day before his 19th birthday if need be. They came to us wanting to settle and came with this rediculous amount. When that happened I got on here and also am in the process of writing a letter back to them along with sending them the journal I kept for a year after the incident.
This is with Allied Insurance.
Thanks for your reply and asking questions I didn't think about
