LIEN STILL NOT PAID,I NO SIGN DEED

i live in s.c. and my ex is ruining my credit as well as his. We divorced 3 yr. ago and he kept the marital home in which has had a signature loan lien against it. He was ordered to be responsible for the lien since he kept the home and I was ordered to sign deed over to him. He now wants to sell the home but the property and mortage is still in both our names due to his attornery procrastinating for the last year in drawing up the deed papers and he still hasn't paid the lien off. I can not pay this lien off myself.So what can I lawfully do to force the issue? We just went back to court again and the judge told us to come within a month and he has to have a pay out on the lien. What does a pay out mean? CAN A JUDGE FORCE ME TO SIGN THE DEED WITHOUT THE LIEN BEING PAID OFF FIRST IF I WAS ORDERED IN THE FINAL HEARING 3 YRS AGO? the bank says if i sign the deed over, that i am saying i am being responsible for the lien. im afraid if i do not sign over the deed the judge will hold me in contempt.I need this mortage out of my name as well but can't. what can I do? thanks angel

[Edited by IT'S NOT FAIR on 04-30-2001 at 09:49 PM]