What is the name of your state? California
My son lives in Tijuana with his mother. i dont have any complaints as to his security with the family ( other then the amazing pessimism in their family ).we get along well. we just dont agree on his upbringing. i want my son to live here in San Diego with me so i can place him in a school which i think would be proper. and somewhere where he is inside the United States. but they dont agree to that. i dont approve of him living in Mexico as i seen by my own eyes the dangers a third world country contains. on 2 occasions in the times that i go to visit him i saw him nearly get ran over. and he got bitten once by a stray dog. luckily it wasnt rabid. my dillema is that i dont want him to get cheap education and i dont want to wait for something to actually happen to him for me to do something about it.
when his mother and I were together on many (separate) occasions i asked " what would you do if i gained custody? " to which i always received the same reply. " i would take him and dissappear into mexico" she has tried to intimidate me with the knowledge that her brother works in the Mexican Government. honestly. . . he does! and if she would actually attempt to disapear i believe that she could considering all logic.
here's the real problem the moment i attempt any legal action and the mother finds out about it while he is in her possesion. i know i will lose my child forever.
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Me: US/Jordanian Citizen, Legal Father Paternity Established Since Birth
Her: Mexican Citizen Only
My Son: US/Mexican Citizen ( which was done behind my back right after he was born. in her brothers Office )
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My son lives in Tijuana with his mother. i dont have any complaints as to his security with the family ( other then the amazing pessimism in their family ).we get along well. we just dont agree on his upbringing. i want my son to live here in San Diego with me so i can place him in a school which i think would be proper. and somewhere where he is inside the United States. but they dont agree to that. i dont approve of him living in Mexico as i seen by my own eyes the dangers a third world country contains. on 2 occasions in the times that i go to visit him i saw him nearly get ran over. and he got bitten once by a stray dog. luckily it wasnt rabid. my dillema is that i dont want him to get cheap education and i dont want to wait for something to actually happen to him for me to do something about it.
when his mother and I were together on many (separate) occasions i asked " what would you do if i gained custody? " to which i always received the same reply. " i would take him and dissappear into mexico" she has tried to intimidate me with the knowledge that her brother works in the Mexican Government. honestly. . . he does! and if she would actually attempt to disapear i believe that she could considering all logic.
here's the real problem the moment i attempt any legal action and the mother finds out about it while he is in her possesion. i know i will lose my child forever.
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Me: US/Jordanian Citizen, Legal Father Paternity Established Since Birth
Her: Mexican Citizen Only
My Son: US/Mexican Citizen ( which was done behind my back right after he was born. in her brothers Office )
[email protected]