What is the name of your state? Hawaii
So the time has finally come after 3yrs of trying to mediate and getting a GAL (that ran off with my money), and my ex refusing to give me any info about my two boys, and all the change in circumstances (on her part), the judge is finally fed up and will make a ruling, but will give us a chance to plead a case as to why the best interest of the boys should be with me.
At this moment my ex has moved back in with her parents house, (for the 2nd time this year), has gone thru 2or 3 boyfriends, and is currently holding down 3jobs. Not to mention because of all of the above, boys do not see mom at all except on pick up and drop off. And my youngest (who needs to be tested for ADHD) has been disturbed to the point to where it is affecting his school work. Those are just a few of the new situations that has arised since I wrote last.
Custody trial is in a week and a half. any advice for me so i don't piss off the judge. and make it sound like i'm just pointing and waving a finger at my ex.
Where in this case do i start? what begining? beginning of visitation or childrens life?
And paperwork from schools, policereports, and visitation/comunication log that i want the judge to see can i just bring it to the trial or am i supposed to file it earlier?
So the time has finally come after 3yrs of trying to mediate and getting a GAL (that ran off with my money), and my ex refusing to give me any info about my two boys, and all the change in circumstances (on her part), the judge is finally fed up and will make a ruling, but will give us a chance to plead a case as to why the best interest of the boys should be with me.
At this moment my ex has moved back in with her parents house, (for the 2nd time this year), has gone thru 2or 3 boyfriends, and is currently holding down 3jobs. Not to mention because of all of the above, boys do not see mom at all except on pick up and drop off. And my youngest (who needs to be tested for ADHD) has been disturbed to the point to where it is affecting his school work. Those are just a few of the new situations that has arised since I wrote last.
Custody trial is in a week and a half. any advice for me so i don't piss off the judge. and make it sound like i'm just pointing and waving a finger at my ex.
Where in this case do i start? what begining? beginning of visitation or childrens life?
And paperwork from schools, policereports, and visitation/comunication log that i want the judge to see can i just bring it to the trial or am i supposed to file it earlier?