mrsschram27
Junior Member
What is the name of your state? Wisconsin
My ex and I broke up after our son turned almost 4, we were together for almost 8 years. LONG story short, I have been trying to get primary placement of my child for the past 3 years. I let his father have primary when we first split up because he made more money and has family here whereas I do not and thought at the time it was a good idea. He could give our child what I couldn't, plus we had a verbal agreement I could have placement at any time. That was a lie. He was a pretty good guy at the time, more stable than he is now. Never treated our son the way he does now. Anyway, he physically "handicapped" himself by punching a window when he was intoxicated one night resulting in several severed tendons, so now he has little to no use of his hand. Because of this he's become bitter, feeling the whole world owes him something.
Now, my son is in 2nd grade, and his teacher tells me she's never seen an angrier child. This is his father's doing, which I will not go into now, it would take too long. I was with my son the other day, and he said, "Dad told me to ask the teacher if she prays every night that I die." That's just the tip of the iceberg, my son has been mentally and emotionally abused by his father, but to the courts as long as the child isn't PHYSICALLY abused or starving, no harm done. How can I get the courts to listen to my side and get primary placement before my son ends up scarred for life? I don't have the money for an attorney, and I wouldn't think you'd need one when a child is physically abused, so what's the difference when on is being emotionally and mentally abused? The bruises are internal, the teacher's and everyone else can still see the damage.What is the name of your state?
My ex and I broke up after our son turned almost 4, we were together for almost 8 years. LONG story short, I have been trying to get primary placement of my child for the past 3 years. I let his father have primary when we first split up because he made more money and has family here whereas I do not and thought at the time it was a good idea. He could give our child what I couldn't, plus we had a verbal agreement I could have placement at any time. That was a lie. He was a pretty good guy at the time, more stable than he is now. Never treated our son the way he does now. Anyway, he physically "handicapped" himself by punching a window when he was intoxicated one night resulting in several severed tendons, so now he has little to no use of his hand. Because of this he's become bitter, feeling the whole world owes him something.
Now, my son is in 2nd grade, and his teacher tells me she's never seen an angrier child. This is his father's doing, which I will not go into now, it would take too long. I was with my son the other day, and he said, "Dad told me to ask the teacher if she prays every night that I die." That's just the tip of the iceberg, my son has been mentally and emotionally abused by his father, but to the courts as long as the child isn't PHYSICALLY abused or starving, no harm done. How can I get the courts to listen to my side and get primary placement before my son ends up scarred for life? I don't have the money for an attorney, and I wouldn't think you'd need one when a child is physically abused, so what's the difference when on is being emotionally and mentally abused? The bruises are internal, the teacher's and everyone else can still see the damage.What is the name of your state?
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