IrishAlexis
Junior Member
What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? SC
I'm hoping for some advice from those who have been there and done that.
My ex and I have a 4 year old son who will be beginning to attend Kindergarten in August this year.
Presently our son shares the weeks and weekend's evenly between our homes. We live 30 to 45 minutes car trip apart so he cant really keep this schedule with school.
I teach and wanted our son to attend school where I teach (it's a Catholic school) however my ex objected so I agreed to public school based from my home. Our son will attend school there. The problem we have is regarding schedules. His father wants every weekend Friday evening to Sunday evening, every spring holiday and all except 2 weeks of the summer so he doesn't lose his 50/50. I've explained it's unfair I should never get any non school time with him and he said that's the price I'll pay for having him for school.
I've not agreed and initially offered him 3 of 4 weekend's each month from Friday to Monday morning. He wouldn't agree so I've offered him all 4 weekends Friday evening to Monday morning, but I get any 5th weekend's and additionally have 2 weekend's floating throughout the school year that I may use. He could have any teacher development days. We would share custody evenly on school holidays, summer break, etc. He still won't agree. He said he's unwilling to give me any weekend time during the school year.
What do I do? I dont have the money for a lawyer, it's me and my son on a teachers salary. Has anyone ever had no weekend's with your children during the school year and how has it worked out?
One other issue, since our son has been born, he's refused to let me get a passport to take him back to see my family in Ireland. I've had to leave him with his dad, or just not go. If we must go to court, can a court force him to sign for a passport? Or give me a court order that he can have one? I'm not asking to take him to a third world country and would just like to be able to take him on holiday to see my family
I'm hoping for some advice from those who have been there and done that.
My ex and I have a 4 year old son who will be beginning to attend Kindergarten in August this year.
Presently our son shares the weeks and weekend's evenly between our homes. We live 30 to 45 minutes car trip apart so he cant really keep this schedule with school.
I teach and wanted our son to attend school where I teach (it's a Catholic school) however my ex objected so I agreed to public school based from my home. Our son will attend school there. The problem we have is regarding schedules. His father wants every weekend Friday evening to Sunday evening, every spring holiday and all except 2 weeks of the summer so he doesn't lose his 50/50. I've explained it's unfair I should never get any non school time with him and he said that's the price I'll pay for having him for school.
I've not agreed and initially offered him 3 of 4 weekend's each month from Friday to Monday morning. He wouldn't agree so I've offered him all 4 weekends Friday evening to Monday morning, but I get any 5th weekend's and additionally have 2 weekend's floating throughout the school year that I may use. He could have any teacher development days. We would share custody evenly on school holidays, summer break, etc. He still won't agree. He said he's unwilling to give me any weekend time during the school year.
What do I do? I dont have the money for a lawyer, it's me and my son on a teachers salary. Has anyone ever had no weekend's with your children during the school year and how has it worked out?
One other issue, since our son has been born, he's refused to let me get a passport to take him back to see my family in Ireland. I've had to leave him with his dad, or just not go. If we must go to court, can a court force him to sign for a passport? Or give me a court order that he can have one? I'm not asking to take him to a third world country and would just like to be able to take him on holiday to see my family