What is the name of your state? MA
I have a 5 year old daughter that I have been granted sole physical and legal custody. Her father and I were never married. He never showed up for the support and custody hearing. I was awarded both.
Anyway, 2 years ago he moved back into the state and I allowed him to see her. After 2 months he vanished again, to not be heard until I filed for contempt of a court order for the child support back in Feb 2006. We've had several hearings and as of yesterday he now wants visitation. Either we can agree to something or he will take me to court.
What are his chances he would get visitation? Would it change my sole custody stature? As I take this paper with me when we leave the country every year, otherwise I need his permission if I didn't have sole cusody. If he did get visitation, what would a judge give him?
I'm scared, as he's a stranger to her, and she's going to get so excited about a daddy, a new "mommy" and a brother who is due the day before my daughter's b-day. I guess, I've got so many fears, and loosing my daughter. (With my commute to work, Im gone from 7am to 6pm M-F. So weekends are swim lessons, my teaching her to ice skate and currently looking into horse riding as that is what she wants to try.)
I don't know, there is lots more, but i don't want to dwell. If you can advise me, please please help. I'm turning into a nervous wreak. Thanks!
~Halla
I have a 5 year old daughter that I have been granted sole physical and legal custody. Her father and I were never married. He never showed up for the support and custody hearing. I was awarded both.
Anyway, 2 years ago he moved back into the state and I allowed him to see her. After 2 months he vanished again, to not be heard until I filed for contempt of a court order for the child support back in Feb 2006. We've had several hearings and as of yesterday he now wants visitation. Either we can agree to something or he will take me to court.
What are his chances he would get visitation? Would it change my sole custody stature? As I take this paper with me when we leave the country every year, otherwise I need his permission if I didn't have sole cusody. If he did get visitation, what would a judge give him?
I'm scared, as he's a stranger to her, and she's going to get so excited about a daddy, a new "mommy" and a brother who is due the day before my daughter's b-day. I guess, I've got so many fears, and loosing my daughter. (With my commute to work, Im gone from 7am to 6pm M-F. So weekends are swim lessons, my teaching her to ice skate and currently looking into horse riding as that is what she wants to try.)
I don't know, there is lots more, but i don't want to dwell. If you can advise me, please please help. I'm turning into a nervous wreak. Thanks!
~Halla