What is the name of your state? Florida
My son usually visits his father in NY during all his schools breaks. I have always sent him even though he would rather stay home. He is going to be 12 years old this year and has expressed to me very strongly that he would like to spend spring break at home so he can be with his friends for the first time. He asked his father and his father feels that it is not his decision and wants him on a plane for break and that one day his son will appreciate what he is doing. I am torn because I know that his father would like to see him, but I also feel my son knows what he wants to do and should be able to make that decision now. I was also told before moving to FL that the court listens to children at around age 12. I don't know what do to because break is in two weeks. Please help.