Designation of Competent Adult in Texas Custody Joint conservatorship
Hello,
I am writing to determine the rights my boyfriend has to elect me his girlfriend as his competent adult. His court documents clearly state that he or his sister and brother in law can designate any competent adult to pick up the children. I have been picking up the children for 4 or 5 months now and have no reason not to continue to do so. However his in-laws who have Primary conservatorship in his case have advised that I am no longer welcome at their property and that they will not allow me to pick up the children anymore. There is no reason for this other than they are just being difficult, I mean that I nor him have given them any reason to not allow me to pick up the children. Can they deny his designated competent adult to now suddenly be denied access to the children.
He works over 6 hours away and comes to see his children for every visitation and does not miss them ever. He cannot miss work to meet them for pick ups on Fridays at 6pm so he has designated me to do it. I don't want to get in the middle of this, but I feel like they are just trying to prevent the kids from seeing him because they think they can.
What are his rights in this situation? I am also wanting to formally send a notarized letter to them designating me as the selected competent adult, but I can't seem to find any documents like this online, any assistance or guidance you can provide in this situation would be most appreciated.
Thank You,
Trying to do the right thing without any drama.