I dont need you to "note" anything for me
If you want to get all particular about the Law then she is a Legal Stranger (yes) but no Judge would ever call her a "bed warmer".. You name call others and say "well that is the kind of stuff that will happen in a courtroom".. Yet I have never heard a Judge be cruel and call someone a "bed warmer"
Who cares if she has been with him for 10 years and is not married. She lives with him. She helps him care for his son. She is not going into a courtroom and standing in front of a Judge and saying all this.. She is on here asking what her boyfriend can do..
Now if she had only been in the boyfriends and childs life for 5 months or a year or so then I would agree.. However that is not the case. Also at no point has she yet to say the child calls her mom or anything like that.
All the name calling and assuming that you do on here are your opinions.. And my opinion is that you are very rude 90% of the time and think just because you hold a law degree in OHIO that it gives you the right to put people down and be nasty.
I guess I am just one of those Military Fools fighting for your right to be rude to people on a public forum.. and since this is a public forum for ADVICE, then she has a right to ask. Because I fight for her right to do that as well