What is the name of your state?
MI
For a bit of background: My daughter just turned 3 in May, her father and I were never married, he is in the military (currently in Iraq but living in Kansas) and I have sole physical custody with joint legal custody. He has only seen her 4 times since she was born. He seems to be under the impression that it is my responsibility to send pictures, call and email how she is doing, and that I should bring her to see him or meet him halfway when he wants to see her. He never sends anything for Christmas or her birthday (yet always says things are coming in the mail) and often makes plans to come see her and cancels them without notifying me he isn't coming. He also expects me to have pictures of him to show to my daughter so I can point to her and tell her, "That's your daddy." I live with my boyfriend whom I have been with since I was five months pregnant and don't feel it's appropriate to have pictures of him hanging around in the living room (although I don't object to giving my daughter pictures of him, yet he thinks its also solely my fault because I haven't asked him for any). He plans on taking me to court when he gets back to the states in a sad attempt to have me do all these things for him. In the past 2 years he has only seen her one time, since he has been overseas only called twice (and yes he does have ample access to a phone and the internet). I simply feel it is his responsibility on his own to be a father, not mine to do it for him, and wonder if his claims will even make their way to court. Can I actually be ordered to take her to Kansas or pay for his transportation? I just get aggrivated because although he has been married twice since my daughter was born he constantly rags on about how I live with my boyfriend and just want her to think he's her father. My boyfriend loves her like his own but also respects the fact that she is not biologically his, so is my daughter's father able to throw a temper tantrum and take me to court everytime this gets under his skin?
MI
For a bit of background: My daughter just turned 3 in May, her father and I were never married, he is in the military (currently in Iraq but living in Kansas) and I have sole physical custody with joint legal custody. He has only seen her 4 times since she was born. He seems to be under the impression that it is my responsibility to send pictures, call and email how she is doing, and that I should bring her to see him or meet him halfway when he wants to see her. He never sends anything for Christmas or her birthday (yet always says things are coming in the mail) and often makes plans to come see her and cancels them without notifying me he isn't coming. He also expects me to have pictures of him to show to my daughter so I can point to her and tell her, "That's your daddy." I live with my boyfriend whom I have been with since I was five months pregnant and don't feel it's appropriate to have pictures of him hanging around in the living room (although I don't object to giving my daughter pictures of him, yet he thinks its also solely my fault because I haven't asked him for any). He plans on taking me to court when he gets back to the states in a sad attempt to have me do all these things for him. In the past 2 years he has only seen her one time, since he has been overseas only called twice (and yes he does have ample access to a phone and the internet). I simply feel it is his responsibility on his own to be a father, not mine to do it for him, and wonder if his claims will even make their way to court. Can I actually be ordered to take her to Kansas or pay for his transportation? I just get aggrivated because although he has been married twice since my daughter was born he constantly rags on about how I live with my boyfriend and just want her to think he's her father. My boyfriend loves her like his own but also respects the fact that she is not biologically his, so is my daughter's father able to throw a temper tantrum and take me to court everytime this gets under his skin?