freedaviceyo
Junior Member
State is PA. My ex was served over the weekend. Court is Thursday for a temp hearing. She opened mail last night. Since then I have gotten texts every 10-15 minutes during waking hours. 7-11 last night. 830-now today. Begging. Threatening. Pleading. Warning. Nothing to do with our child. Can I send a simple text stating "please direct anything regarding this custody issue to my attorney in an email." ?
I have not responded in any way except for one text where she said she was going to tell our child that I am trying to take the kid away from mother. I simply said "please do not involve child. it is not right to talk to the child about this."
I am normally ok with text communication from her. But that is regarding our child. This has nothing to with the kid and is a constant stream. I know this woman well and already know that if I block her or shut my phone off, she will manipulate it to try to say I am not available in case of emergency and that is not good for the child or co-parenting. Even if it won't work, she will still try it. I would like to sew up as many arguments as possible and do the right/non-questionable thing from the beginning. Just prevent whatever avenues of drama I can.
Please let me know if this is an ok response. I would call or email my attorney and ask but I already knew ahead of time she is in court today and tomorrow morning.
If you need more info, just ask.
I have not responded in any way except for one text where she said she was going to tell our child that I am trying to take the kid away from mother. I simply said "please do not involve child. it is not right to talk to the child about this."
I am normally ok with text communication from her. But that is regarding our child. This has nothing to with the kid and is a constant stream. I know this woman well and already know that if I block her or shut my phone off, she will manipulate it to try to say I am not available in case of emergency and that is not good for the child or co-parenting. Even if it won't work, she will still try it. I would like to sew up as many arguments as possible and do the right/non-questionable thing from the beginning. Just prevent whatever avenues of drama I can.
Please let me know if this is an ok response. I would call or email my attorney and ask but I already knew ahead of time she is in court today and tomorrow morning.
If you need more info, just ask.