You get to follow the custody order. You can either call CPS or file for an emergency suspension of the court order. Until the court grants a change in the court order you are supposed to follow it.
Originally Posted by Leticia Roman
As for your soon to be stepchildren -- YOU are NOT their mother and never will be. Your soon to be hubby is NOT your child's father and will not be. Even if you have full custody, the child will visit with dad. You will not be able to ever prohibit visitation or control it completely. And also realize that if you wanted a stable person as your four year old's daughter -- well you should have chosen a stable person to have sex with and create the child with.
Parents should remember 3 things: Love your kids more than you hate your ex; when you have children the relationship with the other parent is until death; your children determine what type of nursing home you end up in.
Nothing stated by me should be taken as giving you legal advice or forming an attorney/client relationship.
Attorney-GAL in Ohio.
I've removed the knife from my back, polished it, and will one day return it -- long after you think I have forgotten.