Per the order it's every Thursday at 6pm to Friday at 6pm. Then every other weekend Friday 6pm to Sunday 6pm.
And what day of the week is the wedding supposed to be? Friday?
If he needs to pull them from school, so be it, I feel I should be informed.
He still has plenty of opportunity to inform you. Perhaps he's waiting to determine if the wedding is actually taking place. Perhaps he has no intention of informing you. Either way, the world will not end.
I am not opposed to them going to the wedding. I do not agree with the total disregard to inform me.
And that's perfectly ok. There are probably lots of decision that he makes that you don't agree with. It's probably one reason you're not still together.
He has been dating this woman for 7 months and as of today it's not even set in stone as to whether or not they are getting married. They will decide next week if it's going to take place.
Great, then get upset NEXT week if you must.
If I don't pick this battle now, I fear this will continue to become a problem. I know if I didn't inform him of what's going on with the kids he would get upset. I notify him of EVERYTHING. It's pretty bad when I find this out from my 10-year-old. He doesn't even have the balls to let me know of the absence from school.
Again, unless he's ALREADY pulled them out and did not tell you in advance, you can't POSSIBLY KNOW whether he INTENDS to tell you or not.
I congratulated him and gave him my best wishes. I honestly don't want to cause problems. I am looking out for the best interest of the kids. Isn't that what I am SUPPOSED to do?????
How would the children be harmed by missing a day of school?