jellybellyjean
Junior Member
I live in Washington state my ex lives in Alaska. Our custody agreement is from California. It give us both joint custody with his primary of our oldest.
My son will be 17 in February. He is on vacation with me and decided he wants to stay. This is not a first decision. He called his dad to ask and his dad said no. He told his dad he was staying and his dad said he would call the cops on me and I would be arrested and it would be kidnapping.
I don't want to cause a big problem for any of us here, but I do think my son should be able to choose. He seems old enough. His reasons are good. Both homes are good homes. There is no abuse or violence. He wants to go to high school in washington to be able to be recognized for his football and hopes to get a scholarship. In AK that is not so easy. He also wants to be with his sister who lives with me and he misses me too. His dad has had him since he was 5. I told his dad he did not have to pay child support, that I would waive that. He still won't agree.
Is there anything we can do? My son says he won't get on the plane to go back, but I feel his dad will retailiate against me and how can I do this right? His plane leaves tomorrow!!! Thank you.
My son will be 17 in February. He is on vacation with me and decided he wants to stay. This is not a first decision. He called his dad to ask and his dad said no. He told his dad he was staying and his dad said he would call the cops on me and I would be arrested and it would be kidnapping.
I don't want to cause a big problem for any of us here, but I do think my son should be able to choose. He seems old enough. His reasons are good. Both homes are good homes. There is no abuse or violence. He wants to go to high school in washington to be able to be recognized for his football and hopes to get a scholarship. In AK that is not so easy. He also wants to be with his sister who lives with me and he misses me too. His dad has had him since he was 5. I told his dad he did not have to pay child support, that I would waive that. He still won't agree.
Is there anything we can do? My son says he won't get on the plane to go back, but I feel his dad will retailiate against me and how can I do this right? His plane leaves tomorrow!!! Thank you.