I have recently obtained an order of joint custody for my son (age 11). He was residing and going to school with his father and step mother in another state, but reported to me in my state during visitation over the summer that he was being verbally abused and neglected by his step mother while his father was working and that the couple fight all the time in the presence of the child. I filed to obtain an order with the court in the state where I live stating that the child would now live and go to school with me; and that the father would have visitation every other weekend and holidays/summer. The father signed the order and it's filed with the court.
Since that time visitation with the father has remained tumultuous with the verbal abuse from step mother becoming worse and the father "crying all the time." The child reported to me he is in a constant state of fear while in their home in the other state and is now afraid to return. The majority of his visits have been with the father's mother in my state -- almost every weekend since the order was signed. The father has not attempted to make arrangements with me regarding future visitation with the child in the other state. The child wishes to continue visitation with the father's mother in my state. The child is planning to be with the father's mother the next two weekends.
The order with the court states that for visitation I am to meet the father halfway between the two states.
Given the previous information, am I legally obligated to make arrangements with the father for the child to go to the other state even though the father is not reaching out to me to make arrangements? The father has a good relationship with his mother and has not objected to the child going there as the child has expressed to their side he is afraid of the step-mother and his dad's lack of protecting the child from her.
Since that time visitation with the father has remained tumultuous with the verbal abuse from step mother becoming worse and the father "crying all the time." The child reported to me he is in a constant state of fear while in their home in the other state and is now afraid to return. The majority of his visits have been with the father's mother in my state -- almost every weekend since the order was signed. The father has not attempted to make arrangements with me regarding future visitation with the child in the other state. The child wishes to continue visitation with the father's mother in my state. The child is planning to be with the father's mother the next two weekends.
The order with the court states that for visitation I am to meet the father halfway between the two states.
Given the previous information, am I legally obligated to make arrangements with the father for the child to go to the other state even though the father is not reaching out to me to make arrangements? The father has a good relationship with his mother and has not objected to the child going there as the child has expressed to their side he is afraid of the step-mother and his dad's lack of protecting the child from her.