this is my take on your situtation.
file for joint physical and custody. dad isn't working, but child support will most likely order since he has no income and can be imputed as minimum wage. even with a 50/50 schedule. however, unless you make massive amounts of money, he will not be able to live on that child support amount anyway.
so dad has a choice, he can get off his butt and get a full time job to support himself and HIS half of the child, OR he will leave the state to go with family to get back on his feet. in that situation, he leaves the child as you will block him to move the child out of state.
file for joint physical and custody. dad isn't working, but child support will most likely order since he has no income and can be imputed as minimum wage. even with a 50/50 schedule. however, unless you make massive amounts of money, he will not be able to live on that child support amount anyway.
so dad has a choice, he can get off his butt and get a full time job to support himself and HIS half of the child, OR he will leave the state to go with family to get back on his feet. in that situation, he leaves the child as you will block him to move the child out of state.