What is the name of your state? 3 states in question OR, WA, and AL
Hello all, I hope someone out there can lead me in the right direction. I cannot seem to find answers any place.
I live in Washington State also the child support was moved to Washington, the custody case is in Multnomah County, Oregon May of 2000. Mother and Child now reside in Alabama, no clue what city.
I am the not the primary parent, I have always fulfilled my support obligations the best I could (Was hit hard off the start with back support), my support is current has been since December 05.
I have not seen my son in 5 years, my visitation was every Saturday per the custody order. I have keep records of my visitations being denied, also have one filed King County police report. Was pointless to continue after calling them out there once they told me they cant enforce court ordered visitation.
My second to last attempt and getting my son for visitation was me showing up, hearing my son playing all cars home and no one answers. The following weekend I show up my son's grandmother answers the door and tells me they have moved and to not continue to show up at her home. My son was behind her at the time.
I never received a new address or phone number, and I never got a response via email from that point forward.
November 06 I received a notice in the mail from her saying she is moving to Alabama. I was given 14 days to react and the custody order states 30 days minimum. I sent an email requesting at least one last visit before they left. So both of my kids could meet each other at least once. I got no response. The reason for the relocation was due to her husband being in the military.
I still have no physical address other then a military FPO box, or any form of contact information besides her email address. I have sent an email about every 6 months or so over the 5 year span with no response. Not sure if I have every email I sent on these, I gave up.
I sent an email requesting some form of a response in regards to my sons future, I got a response for once from her husband with "I will never see him again, I am not his father, He is his father, do not contact them again, etc, etc,."
What I really need to know is what state do I file charges? contempt of court, parental interference, etc, etc,. I cant do this anymore, more so after the email response obviously they just want my money and me to stay out of the picture. I dont want to fund there lifes while I barley make it by each payday to keep food in my daughters belly. I cant just sit back and let this continue anymore. I need help desperately bad.
Hello all, I hope someone out there can lead me in the right direction. I cannot seem to find answers any place.
I live in Washington State also the child support was moved to Washington, the custody case is in Multnomah County, Oregon May of 2000. Mother and Child now reside in Alabama, no clue what city.
I am the not the primary parent, I have always fulfilled my support obligations the best I could (Was hit hard off the start with back support), my support is current has been since December 05.
I have not seen my son in 5 years, my visitation was every Saturday per the custody order. I have keep records of my visitations being denied, also have one filed King County police report. Was pointless to continue after calling them out there once they told me they cant enforce court ordered visitation.
My second to last attempt and getting my son for visitation was me showing up, hearing my son playing all cars home and no one answers. The following weekend I show up my son's grandmother answers the door and tells me they have moved and to not continue to show up at her home. My son was behind her at the time.
I never received a new address or phone number, and I never got a response via email from that point forward.
November 06 I received a notice in the mail from her saying she is moving to Alabama. I was given 14 days to react and the custody order states 30 days minimum. I sent an email requesting at least one last visit before they left. So both of my kids could meet each other at least once. I got no response. The reason for the relocation was due to her husband being in the military.
I still have no physical address other then a military FPO box, or any form of contact information besides her email address. I have sent an email about every 6 months or so over the 5 year span with no response. Not sure if I have every email I sent on these, I gave up.
I sent an email requesting some form of a response in regards to my sons future, I got a response for once from her husband with "I will never see him again, I am not his father, He is his father, do not contact them again, etc, etc,."
What I really need to know is what state do I file charges? contempt of court, parental interference, etc, etc,. I cant do this anymore, more so after the email response obviously they just want my money and me to stay out of the picture. I dont want to fund there lifes while I barley make it by each payday to keep food in my daughters belly. I cant just sit back and let this continue anymore. I need help desperately bad.
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