gammyismyname
Junior Member
What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? North Carolina
Hello all!
Due to a recent "incident", my grandchild was placed in my home by DSS. My son was living with me at the time, but because he was part of the investigation, he had to move out so that his child could be placed here. I have been providing supervised visitation to both parents during this time.
ALL of this occurred per parental consent. The courts have NOT been involved at this point, and so, the State never had actual custody of my grandchild. The placement was part of a safety plan signed by both parents (in order to avoid court).
However, my son has been cleared, dropped from the investigation and will be moving back in! The mother of the child is still being investigated and is considered a strong suspect in a different case involving a different child. For this reason DSS would like for my son to gain custody of my grandchild.
How will that work, since the state does not have custody to give to my son? Does anyone have any suggestions as to what our next steps should be?
Disclaimer: Due to the criminal aspect of the other case, I am very limited as to what I can say about the investigation. I can say that my grandchild was NOT the injured child. I've read other posts on this site and so also I wanted to say, I know that my son needs to "deal with this", he has been and is doing a fabulous job. However, due to some of the things that I cannot discuss, he needs some emotional support, AND when he gets custody, he and his child will live with us.
Hello all!
Due to a recent "incident", my grandchild was placed in my home by DSS. My son was living with me at the time, but because he was part of the investigation, he had to move out so that his child could be placed here. I have been providing supervised visitation to both parents during this time.
ALL of this occurred per parental consent. The courts have NOT been involved at this point, and so, the State never had actual custody of my grandchild. The placement was part of a safety plan signed by both parents (in order to avoid court).
However, my son has been cleared, dropped from the investigation and will be moving back in! The mother of the child is still being investigated and is considered a strong suspect in a different case involving a different child. For this reason DSS would like for my son to gain custody of my grandchild.
How will that work, since the state does not have custody to give to my son? Does anyone have any suggestions as to what our next steps should be?
Disclaimer: Due to the criminal aspect of the other case, I am very limited as to what I can say about the investigation. I can say that my grandchild was NOT the injured child. I've read other posts on this site and so also I wanted to say, I know that my son needs to "deal with this", he has been and is doing a fabulous job. However, due to some of the things that I cannot discuss, he needs some emotional support, AND when he gets custody, he and his child will live with us.