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Don't want to be petty here, but just need to know. My BF pays 700 for CS. Their mother has never sent the kids with any clothes, except the ones they are wearing. No boots in winter, snowpants, etc. She has told the kids to wear stuff that "she doesnt like" and tells them to leave it at our house. And bring other stuff home. No big deal. We refuse to play these games.
Legally, should she be sending them with these things, or do we need to buy them new clothes? It's really hard for us to pay the support and buy new clothes when they are barely with us.
The children get upset and say "my mom is going to kill me" and get really emotional and start to cry. This is usually right before we are finished with our visit and it's time to go, if they cannot find something that they were instructed to bring back, like a shirt. They told us that they have a seperate spot at home to put the things from their dads, so they don't forget to bring it back. Is there something wrong with this? Shouldnt the CS be used for clothing that they can wear for our visits also?
We don't want to send them with dirty clothes if we stay in a hotel and don't have a washer.
Don't want to be petty here, but just need to know. My BF pays 700 for CS. Their mother has never sent the kids with any clothes, except the ones they are wearing. No boots in winter, snowpants, etc. She has told the kids to wear stuff that "she doesnt like" and tells them to leave it at our house. And bring other stuff home. No big deal. We refuse to play these games.
Legally, should she be sending them with these things, or do we need to buy them new clothes? It's really hard for us to pay the support and buy new clothes when they are barely with us.
The children get upset and say "my mom is going to kill me" and get really emotional and start to cry. This is usually right before we are finished with our visit and it's time to go, if they cannot find something that they were instructed to bring back, like a shirt. They told us that they have a seperate spot at home to put the things from their dads, so they don't forget to bring it back. Is there something wrong with this? Shouldnt the CS be used for clothing that they can wear for our visits also?
We don't want to send them with dirty clothes if we stay in a hotel and don't have a washer.