What is the name of your state? nh
up till now when the kids go for a weekend or vacation, i must supply all the clothes and if i'm lucky to get the clothes back i have to wash them. he refuses to buy clothes for the kids saying it was not ordered by the court... he also has no furniture for the kids, ...... mattress only and does not keep the apartment clean to the point that the kids do not want to spend the night there anymore.... am i required to provide all the clothes or should he be buying clothes for his place?? he has them 1 night a week and every other weekend. is he required to buy furniture for the kids?? how do i go about getting this behavior changed??? let me know if you need further info..