I am in MN
What proof do I need to take my ex to court for contempt regarding the right of first refusal? I have been documenting the times our son tells me he spent the night here or there, when the ex worked late and didn't get home til after dark, etc. My ex lies when confronted or makes an excuse, or just ignores the subject. I've even asked the ex that we have the ROFR modified if it is not going to be followed, as it would be nice to allow our son to spend the night with his grandparents on my side as well.
If I didn't always find out til after the fact, I would just go pick up our son from whereever he is, but I never find out until I ask my son how his week was, etc.
Anyway, just looking for advice as to how far I can take this, what proof I need, and if I can attempt this without my attorney.
Can I send a certified letter asking my ex to cease breaking the court order first? Just looking for ways to possibly get this to cease legally without having to file contempt right away.