I have replied to your posts before and think you are going through what my hubby is. I know you can request makeup visitation for time lost. We are looking into suing the mother civilly for interference with visitation. Again, everything points to her and my hubby feels he should be compensated for all of the time he lost with his child because of her and her mental problem!
Father's rights just don't exist. It's a nice phrase someone thought of, but when it comes down to it - they really have none. But God forbid you guys miss child support, they'll hunt you down and treat you like a criminal. Meanwhile the mother's keep on skating by when they interfere with visitation - obviously not realizing they are ruining their own children because of the hate they feel towards their ex's.
In our case, therapist says it's the mother. Now if we could get the friggin judge to hear the evidence, we could move right along.