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jennthai
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What is the name of your state? CA
going thru divorce for a year now. have current custody orders 50/50 pysical and legal. it was an abusive marriage, which i never filed on him for unitl a week ago. I filed a temp restraining order on him monday and he was served wednesday. thursday he files a restaining order on me and has his friend serve me that thursday eve. bad thing is he used the kids and now i cannot get my share of custody until the hearing. he lied about 90 percent on the form. i have a boyfriend which we live together. kids really like him. that week ago the kids father had called me some foul names, slapped me and shoved me all in front of the children. My boyfriend was inside and saw this going on and he had came outside. the kids father stepped back and said "oh damn you got a knife?" which my boyfriend did not, neighbor to witness. the kids father always in my face starting trouble and i had it with him! so i filed the temp rest order. well bad thing is when he filed his rest order on me after he was served with mine he used the kids in it and has it where i cannot visit them until the hearing. he has covinced our 5 yr old that my boyfriend had a knife. my 8yr old says he doesnt want to be involved at all. i am fearful for the kids and of the father. what can i do?
going thru divorce for a year now. have current custody orders 50/50 pysical and legal. it was an abusive marriage, which i never filed on him for unitl a week ago. I filed a temp restraining order on him monday and he was served wednesday. thursday he files a restaining order on me and has his friend serve me that thursday eve. bad thing is he used the kids and now i cannot get my share of custody until the hearing. he lied about 90 percent on the form. i have a boyfriend which we live together. kids really like him. that week ago the kids father had called me some foul names, slapped me and shoved me all in front of the children. My boyfriend was inside and saw this going on and he had came outside. the kids father stepped back and said "oh damn you got a knife?" which my boyfriend did not, neighbor to witness. the kids father always in my face starting trouble and i had it with him! so i filed the temp rest order. well bad thing is when he filed his rest order on me after he was served with mine he used the kids in it and has it where i cannot visit them until the hearing. he has covinced our 5 yr old that my boyfriend had a knife. my 8yr old says he doesnt want to be involved at all. i am fearful for the kids and of the father. what can i do?