I know I have to petition the courts. I am not kidnapping my child!
Thanks for the posts. I will see my lawyer about the rest of it next week. I thought someone else on here had been through the same situation. Obviously this type of forum is not the place to explain the complexity of some situations. I am well aware of paying for my child. Again, thanks for the input.
look, the point was, DO NOT SAY THAT IN YOUR PETITION.
you go about it this way. you file the petition to move with the child. or notify with the court you want to move while notifying dad.
look for your state rules regarding relocation.
request the move with child. put in you will be providing ALL costs of transportation, webcam visits, phone contact, extended weekend visitation, a majority of the holidays, and whatever else time you can think of. shoot, i'd throw in dad not having to pay child support as well.
worse case scenario, you move with hubby, child stays with dad, you pay all transportation costs, have webcam visits, phone contact, and pay child support.