What is the name of your state? New Jersey
Hi, I am an engineer working in NJ. I'm going through a divorce currently caused by severe interference by my ex wife's father and family, and also because my ex wife always supported them over me. It got very bad to the point that her father and uncle came to my apartment 5 times to insult my parents and myself, and fight. My ex also abandoned my place November 2005 at the advise of her father who happens to be very rich and always boasted he could look after his daughter better. We have a daughter 4 months old, and now she wants child support. We are both computer science graduates, but I put her through cosmetology school also, so she has 2 degrees now.
I have no issues with looking after my child, but shouldn't the support payments be equal for both of us? The judge is not taking her computer science degree into acount because she has never bothered to work in that field.
How can I get her to work as well so that the support payment is equal for both? I undertand my child is still young and needs her mother at the moment, but my ex has no expenses, infact she is happy living lavishly in her father's house cost-free and with half of my money, although her father is a millionare and they are the cause of all this ...
I feel very used by these people, and now I have to pay to see my child, while my ex is sitting around waiting for money ... she has lots of women in that house to look after the baby if she worked.
Thanks in advance ...
Simba ...What is the name of your state?
Hi, I am an engineer working in NJ. I'm going through a divorce currently caused by severe interference by my ex wife's father and family, and also because my ex wife always supported them over me. It got very bad to the point that her father and uncle came to my apartment 5 times to insult my parents and myself, and fight. My ex also abandoned my place November 2005 at the advise of her father who happens to be very rich and always boasted he could look after his daughter better. We have a daughter 4 months old, and now she wants child support. We are both computer science graduates, but I put her through cosmetology school also, so she has 2 degrees now.
I have no issues with looking after my child, but shouldn't the support payments be equal for both of us? The judge is not taking her computer science degree into acount because she has never bothered to work in that field.
How can I get her to work as well so that the support payment is equal for both? I undertand my child is still young and needs her mother at the moment, but my ex has no expenses, infact she is happy living lavishly in her father's house cost-free and with half of my money, although her father is a millionare and they are the cause of all this ...
I feel very used by these people, and now I have to pay to see my child, while my ex is sitting around waiting for money ... she has lots of women in that house to look after the baby if she worked.
Thanks in advance ...
Simba ...What is the name of your state?