confusedagain12
Junior Member
Did you consider she may be heavily medicated
If mother is terminally ill, I would assume she is medicated, possibly quite heavily. This could be effecting her rationality and depression could also be causing her to act defensive as well. When someone has a chronic and possibly terminal illness its not like they are going to be normal emotionally, there is no way they can.
As I said first she has the medications to deal with and then the depression that goes along with the realization that she could or may die. Then the fact that she's probably worried about the kids, feeling guilty about her past, who knows. She's probably regreting about a hundred things she wishes she could change that she did wrong.
Give the woman a break, once she's dead and gone you'll be proud of yourself. And if you don't you could end up feeling guilty and never be able to fix it or say you are sorry and that could haunt you for a very long time.
If mother is terminally ill, I would assume she is medicated, possibly quite heavily. This could be effecting her rationality and depression could also be causing her to act defensive as well. When someone has a chronic and possibly terminal illness its not like they are going to be normal emotionally, there is no way they can.
As I said first she has the medications to deal with and then the depression that goes along with the realization that she could or may die. Then the fact that she's probably worried about the kids, feeling guilty about her past, who knows. She's probably regreting about a hundred things she wishes she could change that she did wrong.
Give the woman a break, once she's dead and gone you'll be proud of yourself. And if you don't you could end up feeling guilty and never be able to fix it or say you are sorry and that could haunt you for a very long time.