What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? Indiana
My daughter will be 16 in June. Her dad picked her up on my day last week because she and I had an argument. Now she is saying she doesn't want to come back here. He has her convinced that it's her choice. Our decree states that he has her 7 days and then I do. However we've been doing he has her tues and Thursday and every other weekend I have her Monday and Wednesday and every other weekend. However, he rarely actually keeps her because he lives 36 minutes from her school friends and work. A Lot of "his" nights she spends with his mom or his sister. I'm indecisive as what to do because so often I've heard that at this age the courts allow them to make their own decision. On the other hand the message this is sending to her is that she gets whatever she wants. And...he cannot keep her everyday anyway because he has to have so much help getting her to and from school.
Any words of wisdom?
My daughter will be 16 in June. Her dad picked her up on my day last week because she and I had an argument. Now she is saying she doesn't want to come back here. He has her convinced that it's her choice. Our decree states that he has her 7 days and then I do. However we've been doing he has her tues and Thursday and every other weekend I have her Monday and Wednesday and every other weekend. However, he rarely actually keeps her because he lives 36 minutes from her school friends and work. A Lot of "his" nights she spends with his mom or his sister. I'm indecisive as what to do because so often I've heard that at this age the courts allow them to make their own decision. On the other hand the message this is sending to her is that she gets whatever she wants. And...he cannot keep her everyday anyway because he has to have so much help getting her to and from school.
Any words of wisdom?