let me explain
What I'm trying to do is keep my son going to his fathers. His daughters at the same age refused to go over to his house. After awhile one was willing to go back, but he would not accept the days she wanted to visit, it's all or nothing with him, no changing of anything. My son is 13 and has little social skills because he is not allowed to do anything, school functions or sleepovers when staying at his fathers. (He did the same isolation to our older daughter who would not go back under any circumstances. She tells me to take him to court so her little brother does not have to go through what she did.) Unfortunately he is at that house every week end. For the best interest of my child and to keep a relationship with his father, he would be better off staying with his Dad on school days. So back to my question...what are his rights as a 13 yr. old in Iowa?