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mommyski
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What is the name of your state? NC
My ex and I had 2 children. Following divorce we had joint custody with him having actual physical custody, me visitation. He died in Oct. I know have the girls with me. I'm having trouble enrolling them in school on post (military). They say I have to have custody papers. I have the death certificate, their birth certificates, ss cards, id cards.....everything except custody papers. We (my current hubby and I) now have 4 kids in the home, one of the way and he is the only one working so at the moment I can not hire an attorney to help me with this. A couple I have talked to say this is ridiculous (that the school won't let them in). One person and a few web resources have said that I can file for a modification of custody on my own, the clerk of court told me I could not because then I would be practicing law without a license. The school prinicpal told me that I could just find a judge who could just file out a custody paper for me without having to go through lawyers, court, etc. I guess I'm wondering if anyone knows exactly what I can do without having to sell all my belongings and forget getting xmas for my kids just to hire a lawyer? Any info will be greatly appreciated. The girls have already missed more than a month of school because of this.
Thanks
My ex and I had 2 children. Following divorce we had joint custody with him having actual physical custody, me visitation. He died in Oct. I know have the girls with me. I'm having trouble enrolling them in school on post (military). They say I have to have custody papers. I have the death certificate, their birth certificates, ss cards, id cards.....everything except custody papers. We (my current hubby and I) now have 4 kids in the home, one of the way and he is the only one working so at the moment I can not hire an attorney to help me with this. A couple I have talked to say this is ridiculous (that the school won't let them in). One person and a few web resources have said that I can file for a modification of custody on my own, the clerk of court told me I could not because then I would be practicing law without a license. The school prinicpal told me that I could just find a judge who could just file out a custody paper for me without having to go through lawyers, court, etc. I guess I'm wondering if anyone knows exactly what I can do without having to sell all my belongings and forget getting xmas for my kids just to hire a lawyer? Any info will be greatly appreciated. The girls have already missed more than a month of school because of this.
Thanks