marinewife09
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Might I mention that her dad did have supervised visits at first because he was a potential danger to her. I think my daughter would have plenty of stability with a guranteed home, insurance, and steady paycheck.
Probalby will not matter, unless you are planning to relocate with the child far away from a Dad who is involvied in his child's life. Then it can help Dad.Well with the fathers case, he is supposed to see her everyweek. All that was set up in court before, but I keep track of how little he see's her because I figured that would be a plus for me in court. Will it help any that my soon to be husband is in the military?
Yay for you. This, of course, "ass"umes you are able to regain custody, right?As of now my daughter and myself have no insurance, and once I get married I will have free housing with him and free medical.
At least $2500 as a retainer. If things get ugly.....well into five figures.How much money should I look at spending for taking him to court?
I really hate this argument.Might I mention that her dad did have supervised visits at first because he was a potential danger to her. I think my daughter would have plenty of stability with a guranteed home, insurance, and steady paycheck.
Again. Why is it in the CHILD'S BEAT INTEREST to be moved from the majority of her family, with a mother that can't (per YOUR POSTING) provide her basic needs?Potential danger as in he was abusive to me while I was pregnant and after I had her. Things happened in front of the child. I know this doesn't mean that he would hurt her. There is always that possibility. She also can't be around smoke "court ordered" but her father smokes along with the rest of his family. Everytime she comes back she smells like an ashtray and is sick.
Yeah...Right now I am providing her basic needs. I provide her food, clothes, medical bills, ect. She was on her dad's insurance until he was laid off here recently. Why should my daughter be around abuse all of the time in a tiny home, "both my parents and his" when she could come with me, her MOM, who can give her everything she needs?
Good luck with all of that. But when your Marine meal ticket gets tired of supporting you and your child, then where are you going to be?Right now I am providing her basic needs. I provide her food, clothes, medical bills, ect. She was on her dad's insurance until he was laid off here recently. Why should my daughter be around abuse all of the time in a tiny home, "both my parents and his" when she could come with me, her MOM, who can give her everything she needs?
Based on your posting it would be hard. But much harder to move out of state with the children. You have to argue two separate cases. Based on your "future" with a BOYFRIEND. You do not have a stable situation. It would, based on your postings, be mentally harmful to the child.The ONLY thing I don't provide for my daughter is her housing, which I've explained this reason many times. The only thing I wanted to know really was how hard it would be to get custody back from my mom? And IF you can't give me an answer to thatand woul d rather down me as a mother, you can stay off of my thread because I didn't ask anybody what they thought about me
How am I not providing for my child? The only thing I'm not providing is an actual house of our own, Which I did have until my mom got custody. Then I moved back in with her so I could live with my little girl.Based on your posting it would be hard. But much harder to move out of state with the children. You have to argue two separate cases. Based on your "future" with a BOYFRIEND. You do not have a stable situation. It would, based on your postings, be mentally harmful to the child.
Grow up and stand on your OWN two feet and STOP relying on others to provide for YOUR child.
.Well my marine isn't my meal ticket. He just so happens to be the guy I'm going to marry and there are a lot of benefits that he gets that I will also get, along with my daughter
YOU are unstable. Still. You do and have relied on others to support your child. Now you want your BOYFRIEND to do so.How am I not providing for my child? The only thing I'm not providing is an actual house of our own, Which I did have until my mom got custody. Then I moved back in with her so I could live with my little girl.