We all live in New York. I have full custody and my sons dad has visitation 3 nights a week. He was supposed to pick up my son at 6pm and didn't call or text. I had texted him that we were running late coming back from an appointment so I would drop him off. I called when we arrived at his apartment and it no answer. I knocked and knocked (his car was out front so I knew he was home) and he answered the door, clearly on drugs. He didn't know why I was there or ask where my son was. He didn't know what time it was. He said he worked late the previous night but as I mentioned it was after 6pm. He has a history of drug and alcohol abuse and my boyfriend could tell from the car that he was high - he could barely speak.
I told him I wasn't comfortable leaving our son with him and we'd talk before his next visitation day.
I know I'm not supposed to do that but I couldn't leave my son with him, he's only 5.
What do I do from here? If he's relapsed, I can't have my son around him. What do I file? And will they drug test him based on this?
Thank you in advance. I know you guys volunteer answering these questions and it's much appreciated.
I told him I wasn't comfortable leaving our son with him and we'd talk before his next visitation day.
I know I'm not supposed to do that but I couldn't leave my son with him, he's only 5.
What do I do from here? If he's relapsed, I can't have my son around him. What do I file? And will they drug test him based on this?
Thank you in advance. I know you guys volunteer answering these questions and it's much appreciated.