Worried father
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What is the name of your state? Alabama
I am a father of 5 children. 2 of the children are from a different marrage. There ages are 11 and 9. I have had joint custody of both of the girls since they were 2yrs and 6mo old with me having primary custody. My exwife was ordered to pay me 150/mo child support which I agreed to to prevent her from getting more visitation When she should have had to pay over 400/mo. She only paid about 3 or 4 times in 9yrs. She left us when the baby was placed on the bottle from breast at a few weeks old. She moved in with a man that she had started to get involved with when she was pregnant. This man was into witchcraft and got her involved. Anyway,That soon ended and she got involved with a man that was mean to my girls and they would come home with head lice and ring worms and not take a bath for several days when they would visit. I told her that she could not have them anymore at night and she would have to be present to get the children for visitation and they were to not be left alone with him for any reason. Well she eventually quit getting them for a long time. She would go 2-3mo without any phone calls or anything. She got remarried about 2 yrs ago to a man that seems like he is ok. My children seem to like him and voice no problems while they are there. Recently my oldest, the 11 year old, has expressed that she is wanting to go live with her mother. She states that she just feels different because other children live with their mothers. Only within the last few months have I allowed them to start spending the night and had the 150/mo taken out of her check. My exwife has told them that they can come live with her if they want to and I feel that this is going to be pushing it to them. Can they just decide to go at this age and go or will the past history make a judge say no. I am not perfect but my children are my life..someone please help
I am a father of 5 children. 2 of the children are from a different marrage. There ages are 11 and 9. I have had joint custody of both of the girls since they were 2yrs and 6mo old with me having primary custody. My exwife was ordered to pay me 150/mo child support which I agreed to to prevent her from getting more visitation When she should have had to pay over 400/mo. She only paid about 3 or 4 times in 9yrs. She left us when the baby was placed on the bottle from breast at a few weeks old. She moved in with a man that she had started to get involved with when she was pregnant. This man was into witchcraft and got her involved. Anyway,That soon ended and she got involved with a man that was mean to my girls and they would come home with head lice and ring worms and not take a bath for several days when they would visit. I told her that she could not have them anymore at night and she would have to be present to get the children for visitation and they were to not be left alone with him for any reason. Well she eventually quit getting them for a long time. She would go 2-3mo without any phone calls or anything. She got remarried about 2 yrs ago to a man that seems like he is ok. My children seem to like him and voice no problems while they are there. Recently my oldest, the 11 year old, has expressed that she is wanting to go live with her mother. She states that she just feels different because other children live with their mothers. Only within the last few months have I allowed them to start spending the night and had the 150/mo taken out of her check. My exwife has told them that they can come live with her if they want to and I feel that this is going to be pushing it to them. Can they just decide to go at this age and go or will the past history make a judge say no. I am not perfect but my children are my life..someone please help