There has to be some kind of rights regarding this situation. Does this not fall under illegal search and seizure. Sounds like a dumb question, but they will be seazing my urine...lol. I'm one who doesnt like authority and being told what to do. And i dont like my rights...if i have any...to be violated what so ever. Thats the problem with most people nowadays. They just give into their government and have their rights snatched away. Again. I cannot go tomorrow, but can go 1st thing thursday. Is there anyone on here that knows a little bit more about situations like these?
I understand your frustration, but the reason why they don't tell you ahead of time is so that you don't have time to "get clean". Some drugs stay in your system a long time, but a lot (in small quantities and infrequent use) are gone in a few days.
She is giving you a hard time about the extra day because she is suspecting that you could be delaying until you are clean and short notice is the best chance to catch you if you're not. The fact that you have served time in jail, even if it wasn't drug related, doesn't help your case of pleading for her to believe that you don't do drugs and to give you an extra day.
Well on April 24th I turned myself in...I was sentenced to 120 days but ended up serving 84 of them.
You have 2 basic options, you can go in tomorrow morning to ensure you do everything they are asking so your GF can keep the child. Or you can not go tomorrow and walk in Thursday morning and hope for the best in them letting the child stay in your home--who knows, maybe she's bluffing like someone else suggested and you might be fine since you already have the kid, but you are taking a BIG risk. You can also do any of the things listed above by msmom22000.
Neither you or your GF have a legal right to the child and it is a discretionary decision that he/she is placed in your home.