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KyMomof3
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I really need advice on what to do. My husband has a 5 year old daughter from a previous relationship. Her mother has custody of her. We had her until she was almost 3 years old when her mother met and married someone. She decided to take my step daughter from us. Recently, this woman has decided to go on one of her wild sprees. She is diagnosed as Bi=Polar and we have gone to court many times trying to get custody. We were told that in Kentucky it is virtually impossible to take a child away from his/her mother. Over the past several months the woman has been dumping her kids off on her husband. She will not allow us to see my husbands daughter and hasn't over the past 3 years. We were allowed to visit her at her mothers home, but she owuld never let us take her to our home for weekends. The courts would not do anything to benefit us. We have 3 other children and a VERY stable home environment. Her mother has moved over 17 times in 2 1/2 years. My step daughter started kindergarten this year and we were notified today that she is being charged with neglect and has to appear in court on Wed. b/c she has not sent the child to school for over 3 weeks! Last week she went into the mall and left the child in the car while she shopped. A police officer noticed this and took the child into the mall and paged her mother and told her she was going to be reported to Social Services. SS has been to her home several times this week and they still have not taken the children away. She wants to give custody of both of her children to her husband. We would never have known any of this had her husband not called us today. She has a house full of men staying with her that are doing drugs and drinking. She told her husband that she does not want the children, but she refuses to give us custody of the girl. I called and talked to an attorney that is a friend of our family and he said that after the hearing on Wed. that the judge could very well give custody to the step father without my husbands consent. We want her back in our home where she will have a normal life again. We have already paid an attorney 1000.00 back when this all started and he did nothing. Since we have 3 other children to care for we simply do not have the funds to hire another attorney.
Would going to Social Services on Monday do us any good, or should we just show up and intervene at the hearing on Wed.? We are really unclear on our rights and how to go about getting the child away from that unstable environment
Please Help!
Ky Mom
Would going to Social Services on Monday do us any good, or should we just show up and intervene at the hearing on Wed.? We are really unclear on our rights and how to go about getting the child away from that unstable environment
Please Help!
Ky Mom