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jenson
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What is the name of your state? CA
I think my fiance and I have some miscommunication. First of all, if he would take care of his own case by himself, I guess we wouldn't have a problem. But since I take my own time to help him, I am getting blamed for making mistakes.
I mentioned before that my fiance has been out of the country trying to make some money to pay for his cs. He is paying for cs right now while he is away. He hasn't been able to see his son while he is away. Obviously. He does not want the CP to know where he is nor the DA. When he gets back, he will have a job.
This hearing is for cs mod. on 6/12/02, which he can not attend. He was on standby for a flight back to CA on 6/10/02. So, I called the court calendar (and conferenced my fiance in on the call) to reschedule the hearing for him and they said that we had to get the CP and the DA to agree to the hearing before they could reschedule the hearing.
I called the DA's office first, and explained to them that I was his fiance and that I was going to conference him in on the call. But the person I spoke to was not the one on the case, but he told me that he would pass the msg on to the person handling the case. I guess I did mention to them that he was out of the country and couldn't get a flight back in time. They said that the court clerk was mistaken and that the DA's rep was going to appear in court and let the judge know that my fiance contacted them and that he could not be at the hearing. Then the man asked me to get a plane intinerary so that they could have proof to show the judge on 6/12/02, as to why my fiance could not be at the hearing.
When I told my fiance this, he got mad at me because now they know he was out of the country. He told me that the last time he was out of the country, they asked him where did he get the money for the ticket. I don't recall this or him telling me because I was not at the hearing. He said that the DA's office records their phone conversations. And now if he faxes the plane intinerary, it only shows that he has not seen his son for 2 months and they will not let him see his son in the future. I told him that the judge will not order something like that. Am I right? How can the judge sign an order where he can not see his son.
The person I spoke with at the DA's office told me that it would be good if I was at the hearing. I won't be able to speak, but I may be able to explain why my fiance isn't there. And so that hopefully the motion won't be dismissed and to be rescheduled.
Did I just open a can of worms by letting the DA's office know he was out of the country? What is your take on this? I think I have done all that I can.
I think my fiance and I have some miscommunication. First of all, if he would take care of his own case by himself, I guess we wouldn't have a problem. But since I take my own time to help him, I am getting blamed for making mistakes.
I mentioned before that my fiance has been out of the country trying to make some money to pay for his cs. He is paying for cs right now while he is away. He hasn't been able to see his son while he is away. Obviously. He does not want the CP to know where he is nor the DA. When he gets back, he will have a job.
This hearing is for cs mod. on 6/12/02, which he can not attend. He was on standby for a flight back to CA on 6/10/02. So, I called the court calendar (and conferenced my fiance in on the call) to reschedule the hearing for him and they said that we had to get the CP and the DA to agree to the hearing before they could reschedule the hearing.
I called the DA's office first, and explained to them that I was his fiance and that I was going to conference him in on the call. But the person I spoke to was not the one on the case, but he told me that he would pass the msg on to the person handling the case. I guess I did mention to them that he was out of the country and couldn't get a flight back in time. They said that the court clerk was mistaken and that the DA's rep was going to appear in court and let the judge know that my fiance contacted them and that he could not be at the hearing. Then the man asked me to get a plane intinerary so that they could have proof to show the judge on 6/12/02, as to why my fiance could not be at the hearing.
When I told my fiance this, he got mad at me because now they know he was out of the country. He told me that the last time he was out of the country, they asked him where did he get the money for the ticket. I don't recall this or him telling me because I was not at the hearing. He said that the DA's office records their phone conversations. And now if he faxes the plane intinerary, it only shows that he has not seen his son for 2 months and they will not let him see his son in the future. I told him that the judge will not order something like that. Am I right? How can the judge sign an order where he can not see his son.
The person I spoke with at the DA's office told me that it would be good if I was at the hearing. I won't be able to speak, but I may be able to explain why my fiance isn't there. And so that hopefully the motion won't be dismissed and to be rescheduled.
Did I just open a can of worms by letting the DA's office know he was out of the country? What is your take on this? I think I have done all that I can.