So... they'd rather make your life more difficult? How about they help "make your life easier"... because helping you abide by the court order is helping you stay out of trouble.
Also, although your daughter is not the current BF's responsibility, part of taking care of his baby is taking care of you - making sure that you don't have to worry about transportation.
And what if something shows up in a test... and you are put on bedrest for the rest of your pregnancy? Or you have an emergency C-section?
They would rather make HIS life more difficult. They got mad cuz I talked him into using his thanksgiving time with her (he ended up canceling so the point was moot), but yes. If he doesn't get her, they consider it a win. They don't think logically.
Plus, they had problems with him when we were married. Given the events of the divorce, he migh5 as well be public enemy number 1. I've accepted it. I do what I can for my child's sake.
If I'm put on be dress, he'll be there for me. But he will not give up being at the birth of his child and I won't ask him to. That includes a c section.
Birth of child: happens once in the lifetime of a child. Birth of his first child is once in his lifetime event. Visitation with father: happens every other weekend.
My bf transporting instead of being at his child's birth is not happening. Besides: I've read other posts on here where step parents make posts. It is quite clear where they stand: legal stranger. Child is none of their business. It's a bit hypocritical to request a person to forgo being at the birth of their biological and legal child in order to play taxi for a "legal stranger". Don't you think?