childrenRpeople
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What is the name of your state? CA
My ex and I share custody of our son. Right now it's about a 60/40 time split (our son is with me more) and he is wanting a 50/50 arrangement eventually (which I am open to so long as the ex is keeping his act clean).
I am also on the verge of being engaged and we want another child. (The new boyfriend does not live with us, if this info is helpful).
I am afraid that when I make this announcement, the ex may demand pri**** custody of our son and possibly take me to court to try for it.
I am a bit afraid to enter a new living arrangment/marriage/motherhood if it will at all jeopardize my custody arrangement with my already born.
So my question becomes, how does my involvement in a new relationship/possibility of a new child affect custody issues?
Pardon my ignorance. You don't know unless you ask. Thanks!
My ex and I share custody of our son. Right now it's about a 60/40 time split (our son is with me more) and he is wanting a 50/50 arrangement eventually (which I am open to so long as the ex is keeping his act clean).
I am also on the verge of being engaged and we want another child. (The new boyfriend does not live with us, if this info is helpful).
I am afraid that when I make this announcement, the ex may demand pri**** custody of our son and possibly take me to court to try for it.
I am a bit afraid to enter a new living arrangment/marriage/motherhood if it will at all jeopardize my custody arrangement with my already born.
So my question becomes, how does my involvement in a new relationship/possibility of a new child affect custody issues?
Pardon my ignorance. You don't know unless you ask. Thanks!