rdclark636
Junior Member
State: Missouri
Filed for divorce after 12 years on the ground for marital misconduct.
-Wife moved Aug. 2009 of house while I was at work and left NOTHING but the trash
-Filed for divorce in Feb. 2010
-Pulled my credit report to only find out a few things were suspicious late due notices I was getting the mail with my name.
-Long story - she had forged my name and used my credit to obtain student loans, credit cards, etc. Almost $200,000.
Including she somehow was getting assistance from the state like Food stamps.
The fraud/Identity Theft, she was using her best friends address.
I turned everything over to the local Police Dept. They are going to be filing charges against her. Just a slow process but the PA has reassured me she will not get off the hook
-She has called Division of Family services on me alleging that I have abused my 12 year old daughter and other stuff. They were all dismissed and sent over to the City Detective for Harrassment. She is being charged with abusing the Hotline and harrassement on me.
-Final settlement conference last monday - Judge stated
"I can not have two parents that are trying to put one another in jail, you have to drop the pending charges against your wife, otherwise you will not get custody of your daughter and I will not leave room open that if she does go to jail, you will not be able to come back and modify to get full custody"
Now with that being said - Blackmail may I say? Has she violated her Judicial Code of Conduct? Has she violated my rights? I am at a lost....any help would be appreciated.
Filed for divorce after 12 years on the ground for marital misconduct.
-Wife moved Aug. 2009 of house while I was at work and left NOTHING but the trash
-Filed for divorce in Feb. 2010
-Pulled my credit report to only find out a few things were suspicious late due notices I was getting the mail with my name.
-Long story - she had forged my name and used my credit to obtain student loans, credit cards, etc. Almost $200,000.
Including she somehow was getting assistance from the state like Food stamps.
The fraud/Identity Theft, she was using her best friends address.
I turned everything over to the local Police Dept. They are going to be filing charges against her. Just a slow process but the PA has reassured me she will not get off the hook
-She has called Division of Family services on me alleging that I have abused my 12 year old daughter and other stuff. They were all dismissed and sent over to the City Detective for Harrassment. She is being charged with abusing the Hotline and harrassement on me.
-Final settlement conference last monday - Judge stated
"I can not have two parents that are trying to put one another in jail, you have to drop the pending charges against your wife, otherwise you will not get custody of your daughter and I will not leave room open that if she does go to jail, you will not be able to come back and modify to get full custody"
Now with that being said - Blackmail may I say? Has she violated her Judicial Code of Conduct? Has she violated my rights? I am at a lost....any help would be appreciated.