I am in Missouri. I have been divorced since May 2014. My ex and I share joint legal and physical custody of our three children, with me as the custodial parent.
Prior to the divorce, I was a stay at home parent and homeschooled our children. My ex was completely supportive of this decision at that time. The children have now been in public school for over two years due to practical issues with homeschooling as a single parent.
I am planning to move in June, with my children, to St. Louis. We will be in the inner city school district which I do not believe is appropriate for our children. We can not afford private school. Our only real option is homeschooling the first year, and I am open to charter school after that. I am willing to negotiate and compromise with this issue. I will be homesharing so homeschooling is feasible, as I will have childcare to allow me to work part time.
My ex is very adamant that he does not agree with homeschooling now. I am adamant that our kids will not attend inner city schools.
Should he pursue a custody case so they can attend school where he lives, what are the chances he could win this? I've been the primary care provider for all of our kids, stay at home parent, and have made literally every major decision for our kids. He does not pay child support as ordered, does not follow the parenting plan in many ways, has never done homework, doctor appointment or any kind of real parenting work. He does not even give baths or change their clothes on the weekends.
Would a judge give this parent custody just based on the homeschooling disagreement alone? As I said, I feel I've been willing to compromise, offered to submit to him curriculum plans and records of the kids work. Gave him details of all the groups and resources for homeschoolers in St. Louis - there is alot!
Thank you for any thoughts! I just don't want to have to worry about this. Transition is hard enough.
Prior to the divorce, I was a stay at home parent and homeschooled our children. My ex was completely supportive of this decision at that time. The children have now been in public school for over two years due to practical issues with homeschooling as a single parent.
I am planning to move in June, with my children, to St. Louis. We will be in the inner city school district which I do not believe is appropriate for our children. We can not afford private school. Our only real option is homeschooling the first year, and I am open to charter school after that. I am willing to negotiate and compromise with this issue. I will be homesharing so homeschooling is feasible, as I will have childcare to allow me to work part time.
My ex is very adamant that he does not agree with homeschooling now. I am adamant that our kids will not attend inner city schools.
Should he pursue a custody case so they can attend school where he lives, what are the chances he could win this? I've been the primary care provider for all of our kids, stay at home parent, and have made literally every major decision for our kids. He does not pay child support as ordered, does not follow the parenting plan in many ways, has never done homework, doctor appointment or any kind of real parenting work. He does not even give baths or change their clothes on the weekends.
Would a judge give this parent custody just based on the homeschooling disagreement alone? As I said, I feel I've been willing to compromise, offered to submit to him curriculum plans and records of the kids work. Gave him details of all the groups and resources for homeschoolers in St. Louis - there is alot!
Thank you for any thoughts! I just don't want to have to worry about this. Transition is hard enough.