First off I live in South Carolina. I am currently active duty military and my ex-husband is military. Last year I received orders to Washington DC. When I received these orders my ex-husband told me he would never let me take her out of state. I turned down this assignment and decided to end my active duty career after 12 years of service. I have been accused of being uninvolved in my child's life, mentally unstable and just an inferior parent. All of these allegations were unfounded and my ex looked ridiculous in depositions when he tried to substantiate his claims. Fast forward a year, he received orders to MD. He's been digging around for info on my new husband because he knows he cant try me again. My husband has 2 DUIs in the past...his most recent in November. My child was not in the car, nor was she even in my custody when my husband got this DUI. My ex is now demanding a emergency hearing alleging that my husband is a drunk and abuses me. Their is no basis for the abuse claims and my husband have never touched me or anyone else. Granted he did get two DUIs which I dont excuse, but he's never drank in front of my child let alone get drunk in front of her. Does not drink on a regular basis. Her father on the other hand, admitted during depositions that he regularly drank alcohol and drove the children around.
I've done everything I can to make a stable life for my child. I've already got a job for when I leave the military and I bought a home. Its like he always thinks up some scheme to take her away from me continually!
I am wondering...is there a chance I could lose my daughter even though he has no actual proof of anything?