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arieus
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What is the name of your state? north carolina
i believe my ex has a problem with cocaine. custody has not been set yet (we have to go thru 2 mediation sessions) but it hasn't been an issue since he has been so busy partying that he doesn't seem concerned about where his child is. my question is this:when is the proper place to bring this up to ensure that when he does sober up long enough to see his child (1 year old) the visitation will be monitored for the safety of the child? i have not kept him from visiting (he has not attempted to visit) but i am terrified that he will show up messed up on drugs and the baby won't be safe with him unsupervised. i have asked his mother and father if they would be willing to supervise visitation and they both have agreed if the court allows it, and on that note, will they require drug testing to force him to clean up? he was a really good dad before, and i know that if he got off the drugs he would be there for his son. any advice on how to make this happen would be appreciated!
i believe my ex has a problem with cocaine. custody has not been set yet (we have to go thru 2 mediation sessions) but it hasn't been an issue since he has been so busy partying that he doesn't seem concerned about where his child is. my question is this:when is the proper place to bring this up to ensure that when he does sober up long enough to see his child (1 year old) the visitation will be monitored for the safety of the child? i have not kept him from visiting (he has not attempted to visit) but i am terrified that he will show up messed up on drugs and the baby won't be safe with him unsupervised. i have asked his mother and father if they would be willing to supervise visitation and they both have agreed if the court allows it, and on that note, will they require drug testing to force him to clean up? he was a really good dad before, and i know that if he got off the drugs he would be there for his son. any advice on how to make this happen would be appreciated!